S.M. v. A.S.
CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
Date FiledOctober 21, 2026
DocketA-1115-24
StatusUnpublished
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-1115-24
S.M.,1
Plaintiff-Respondent,
v.
A.S.,
Defendant-Appellant.
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Submitted September 22, 2026 – Decided October 21, 2026
Before Judges Natali and Jablonski.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
Chancery Division, Family Part, Monmouth County,
Docket No. FM-13-1983-14.
A.S., self-represented appellant (August J. Landi, on
the brief).
Rutgers Law Associates, attorneys for respondent
(Andrew J. Rothman, Supervising Attorney, and
Hillary Yao, J.D., appearing pursuant to Rule 1:21-
3(a), on the brief).
1
We refer to the parties by initials and their children by fictitious names to
preserve their privacy interests. R. 1:38-3(d)(11).
PER CURIAM
In this appeal, defendant A.S. challenges a November 8, 2024 Family Part
order that denied his application to reopen the proceedings concerning parenting
time with the parties' son, A.S. ("Alex"), and denied his request to recalculate
his child support obligation. For the following reasons, we affirm the November
8, 2024 order denying defendant's application to reopen the parenting-time
proceedings. We also affirm the order as to support on the present record, but
we do so without prejudice to defendant's filing a future, properly supported
application in the Family Part concerning support.
I.
The parties married on October 13, 1996, and have four children: S .S.
("Samantha") (born in May 1998), J.S. ("James") (born in June 1999), B.S.
("Bianca") (born in May 2003), and Alex (born in July 2008). After extensive,
contested matrimonial litigation, a New York court entered a divorce judgment
in September 2012 awarding plaintiff sole legal and physical custody of the
children. The judgment provided that visitation with the three older children
would occur as arranged through a parenting coordinator, and defendant would
have parenting time with Alex on alternating Saturdays and Sundays, together
with liberal telephone contact. The judgment also established defendant 's
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support obligations, including weekly child support and a share of the children 's
unreimbursed medical, dental, and educational expenses. After plaintiff
relocated to New Jersey, she registered the New York judgment in New Jersey,
and the parties thereafter litigated post-judgment issues in the New Jersey
Family Part. Alex turned eighteen during the pendency of this appeal. 2
In May 2016, the parties entered a consent order that vacated defendant's
then-existing arrears, reset his support obligations, and terminated alimony.
Approximately two years later, in 2018, the court addressed several applications
concerning parenting time and support.
First, in August 2018, it granted defendant expanded parenting time with
Alex by adding an overnight on alternating weekends, finding that Alex's visits
with defendant had been appropriate and that a modest expansion of parenting
time was warranted. Next, in November of that same year, the court further
expanded defendant's parenting time with Alex and ordered reunification
therapy between defendant and Bianca.
2
We do not adopt the categorical view that Alex's attainment of age eighteen
automatically extinguished all judicial authority to address visitation or related
issues while he remains unemancipated. New Jersey law recognizes limited
continuing jurisdiction with respect to persons under twenty-one. N.J.S.A.
9:17B-3; see also A.E.C. v. P.S.C., 453 N.J. Super. 19, 29-31 (App. Div. 2018);
O.Y.P.C. v. J.C.P., 442 N.J. Super. 635, 641-42 (App. Div. 2015); Quinn v.
Johnson, 247 N.J. Super. 572, 580 (Ch. Div. 1991).
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The court also reduced defendant's then-existing support arrears to a civil
judgment in the amount of $50,642.16, directed probation to reflect a zero
balance because the arrears had been reduced to judgment, and continued a
weekly payment of $225 through wage garnishment. A subsequent November
7, 2018 order, entered to correct what it described as a clerical error in paragraph
9 of the earlier order, clarified that the $225 weekly amount consisted of $200
in current child support and $25 attributable to arrears, and further provided that
if there were no arrears, probation should not collect the additional $25. In
February 2021, the court later enforced payment of the $50,642.16 judgment and
ordered specific payments toward that judgment, including two lump-sum
payments of $3,500, and monthly payments of $500 beginning June 1, 2021.
The parenting time issues raised before us have their genesis in subsequent
New York criminal proceedings. Specifically, in April 2021, defendant was
arrested and indicted by a grand jury after Samantha reported that defendant had
sexually abused her as a child. In an affirmation contained in the record and
submitted in defendant's separate suit for injuries allegedly arising from the
criminal prosecution, the prosecutor stated that the criminal case was dismissed
because continued participation in a criminal trial would be detrimental to the
complaining witness's mental health. Defendant, however, maintains the court
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dismissed the charges against him on speedy-trial grounds. In any event, it is
not disputed that the criminal case was dismissed in April 2023.
Following defendant's 2021 arrest, New York child-protective authorities
opened an investigation and plaintiff sought emergent relief in New Jersey.
Although the appellate record does not include the 2021 orders governing Alex's
parenting time, the record indicates that defendant's parenting time with Alex
was temporarily suspended pending completion of that investigation and receipt
of recommendations concerning Alex's safety.
A month after the dismissal of the New York criminal case, in May 2023,
defendant sought post-judgment relief in the Family Part to restore his parenting
time with Alex and to reduce his child support obligations. Plaintiff opposed
restoration of defendant's parenting time and sought enforcement of his prior
financial obligations, including reimbursement of orthodontic expenses and
payments toward arrears.
The court conducted an in-camera interview of Alex in August 2023 and
later held a plenary hearing. While that hearing was pending, in February 2024
defendant lost his job. The plenary hearing commenced in March 2024 and
continued on non-consecutive days in May and July. In April, defendant filed a
separate application motion to modify child support based on his unemployment.
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On the third day of the plenary hearing, plaintiff's counsel informed the
court that Alex wished to update his testimony. Defendant objected and argued
that having Alex testify would be harmful and akin to "child abuse" and
unnecessary as the court already heard Alex's views. After meeting with counsel
in chambers, the court decided to permit Alex to testify in open court and
allowed each party and their counsel to watch the testimony through Zoom from
a different room and to address any questions for Alex with counsel if they
wished. As a direct result of this decision, defendant withdrew his application
to restore his parenting time.
That did not end the visitation dispute, however. On August 5, defendant
filed another application to reopen the parenting-time hearing and have Alex
interviewed in-camera rather than in open court. Defendant also requested the
trial judge require plaintiff to submit a Case Information Statement. 3 Defendant
moved to reopen the hearing for good cause shown, however, the record does
not reflect any new factual development beyond defendant's request that the
3
We note a discrepancy in the record regarding whether plaintiff filed the
required Case Information Statement. Although defendant states plaintiff failed
to file a CIS, the record indicates plaintiff did so on August 13, 2024. Further,
at the November 8 hearing, defendant's counsel acknowledged receipt of
plaintiff's CIS. We note this factual inconsistency only to clarify the record and
need not further address the issue in order to resolve the arguments raised by the
parties.
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court conduct a second in-camera interview of Alex without examination by
counsel.
Based on the transcript of proceedings regarding the parenting time issues,
it appears the court conducted a separate hearing for child support in June where
the parties presented testimony and argument. The trial judge "held off" on
issuing a final order because the parties had expressed a desire to mediate a
resolution.
Although the record refers to an August 15 order maintaining the current
child support amount, that order is not included in the record. The record does
show, however, that, on August 20, defendant moved to vacate the August 15
order as improvidently entered. The November 8 challenged order denied or
dismissed all of defendant's then-pending applications, including the August 5
request to reopen the parenting-time proceedings and defendant's support-
related applications.
Before us, defendant challenges the denial of his request to reopen the
parenting-time proceedings and the denial of his request to modify his support
obligations. He maintains the court effectively terminated his parental rights,
abdicated its parens patriae responsibilities, acted outside the scope of the state
Rules by providing for Alex to be cross-examined by counsels, inadequately
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explained its rulings, improperly concluded the plenary hearing, and committed
error by declining to recalculate support in light of the ages of the parties' older
children.
II.
Family courts maintain "special jurisdiction and expertise in family
matters," so "appellate courts should accord deference to family court fact
finding." Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394, 413 (1998). "Discretionary
determinations, supported by the record, are examined to discern whether an
abuse of reasoned discretion has occurred." Ricci v. Ricci, 448 N.J. Super. 546,
564 (App. Div. 2017). Legal issues, however, are reviewed de novo. Id. at 565.
Our standard of review is that we will not disturb factual findings and legal
conclusions unless they are "so manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with
the competent, relevant, and reasonably credible evidence as to offend the
interests of justice." Rova Farms Resort v. Invs. Ins. Co. of Am., 65 N.J. 474,
484 (1974) (quoting Fagliarone v. Twp. of N. Bergen, 78 N.J. Super. 154, 155
(App. Div. 1963)).
We first address defendant's arguments that the trial court effectively
terminated his parental rights, abdicated its parens patriae responsibility,
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inadequately explained its ruling, and improperly handled Alex's testimony. We
are unpersuaded by his arguments.
We reject defendant's characterization that the November 8 order
effectively terminated his parental rights or that it failed to properly address the
parenting time issues. To the contrary, the court conducted an in-camera
interview of Alex in August 2023 and later presided over a plenary hearing over
multiple dates in 2024 to address defendant's request to restore parenting time
after the dismissal of the New York criminal charges.
A party seeking to modify custody or parenting time bears the burden of
demonstrating changed circumstances and that the requested relief is in the
child's best interests. Abouzahr v. Matera-Abouzahr, 361 N.J. Super. 135, 152
(App. Div. 2003); Sheehan v. Sheehan, 51 N.J. Super. 276, 287-88 (App. Div.
1958). Although we agree with defendant that the dismissal of the New York
criminal case constituted a changed circumstance that required the Family Part
to address defendant's original request to restore parenting time, the court did
precisely that. As noted, the court did not deny that initial request without a
hearing; it actually conducted one.
The proceedings did not proceed to conclusion solely because defendant
voluntarily withdrew his application after the court ruled Alex could testify in
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open court with certain protections in place. As such, the November 8 order did
not dispose of a still-pending request for parenting time on procedural grounds.
Instead, it denied defendant's later effort to reopen proceedings he elected to
end. Our review of the visitation-related issues is therefore limited to whether
the court erred in declining to reopen the withdrawn proceedings and we do not
decide on this record whether defendant was substantively entitled to restored
parenting time.
On that question, nothing in the record established a new, material
development affecting Alex's welfare. See Hand v. Hand, 391 N.J. Super. 102,
105 (App. Div. 2007) (explaining the trial court must hold a plenary hearing
"when the submissions show there is a genuine and substantial factual dispute
regarding the welfare of the children, and the trial judge determines that a
plenary hearing is necessary to resolve the factual dispute"). Defendant's later
request was based principally on a change in litigation position—specifically,
that he would now accept a second in-camera interview if Alex were not subject
to examination by counsel. That was not a changed circumstance bearing on
Alex's best interests. It was, at most, defendant's revised view of how the
hearing should proceed.
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For similar reasons, we reject defendant's contention that the trial court
abdicated its parens patriae responsibility. The court interviewed Alex,
conducted a plenary hearing, and fashioned a procedure it viewed as protective
of Alex's best interests, while preserving the parties' ability to challenge his
testimony. Defendant objected to that procedure and chose to withdraw his
application rather than complete the proceeding. The court was not obligated to
reopen the matter later simply because defendant reconsidered his earlier
decision.
Defendant's challenge to the court's decision to permit Alex to testify in
open court is equally unpersuasive. Rule 5:8-6 provides that, as part of a custody
hearing, the court may on its own motion or at the request of a litigant conduct
an in-camera interview with a child. The Rule leaves to the court's discretion
whether to interview the child and how best to manage the child's participation
in a contested custody matter. While an in-camera interview before trial is the
default, the court may decide to conduct an interview at any time "for good
cause." R. 5:8-6. Additionally, the court may invoke Rule 5:3-2(a) to permit
necessary testimony "under such protective orders as the court may provide."
Here, the court had already interviewed Alex. When plaintiff's counsel
advised that Alex wished to address the court again, it detailed a procedure under
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which Alex could testify in open court without either plaintiff or defendant
physically present, while permitting counsel and the parties to observe remotely.
We have previously explained that children whom the trial court deems capable
"should be afforded the opportunity to make [their] views known." Lavene v.
Lavene, 148 N.J. Super. 267, 272 (App. Div. 1977). Consistent with that
principle, the court did not err by allowing Alex to address the court again on an
issue directly affecting him. Nothing in Rule 5:8-6 required the court to proceed
only by means of a second in-camera interview given the protections the court
announced, and nothing in the court's ruling compelled defendant to abandon
his application rather than conclude the hearing.
Nor are we persuaded by defendant's argument that the court's statement
of reasons was inadequate for appellate review under Rule 1:7-4(a). We
acknowledge that when parents cannot agree on a custody or parenting time
arrangement, "[t]he court shall specifically place on the record the factors which
justify" the decision it reached. N.J.S.A. 9:2-4(f). The contested November 8,
order, however, did not modify or alter the parenting time determination. It
denied defendant's request to reopen proceedings he had voluntarily withdrawn
during an already-conducted hearing on parenting time and visitation. In that
setting, the governing requirement was that the court explain, under Rule 1:7-
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4(a), why it was denying the motion before it. The court's explanation, though
concise, was sufficient to permit our review: defendant withdrew his
application, and his later motion to reopen did not present any new factual
development affecting Alex's welfare that required the court to restart the
proceedings.
To that end, defendant argues he had a meritorious claim to restore his
parenting time and seeks a remand to permit the court to complete the hearing
and decide that issue on the merits. Nothing in the record, however, indicates a
final decision granting or denying restored parenting time was ever
entered. Instead, defendant withdrew that application before the plenary hearing
concluded, and the November 8 order addressed only his subsequent request to
reopen those proceedings. Our review of the visitation-related issues is
therefore appropriately limited to whether the court erred in declining to reopen
the withdrawn proceedings and we do not determine on this incomplete record
whether defendant was substantively entitled to restored parenting time.
We thus discern no abuse of the court's discretion and accordingly affirm
the November 8 order to the extent it denied defendant's application to reopen
the custody and parenting-time proceedings. Our decision does not address
whether defendant may seek such future relief, if any, as may be available in the
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appropriate court based on Alex's age, wishes, and any other pertinent facts. We
express no view on the timeliness, cognizability, or merits of any such future
application.
We note Alex has since reached majority. Whatever limited post-majority
visitation authority may exist in an appropriate case, see note 1, defendant has
not presented that issue to us in the procedural posture contemplated by Rule
4:3-1(a)(4)(D), nor has he developed a record bearing on the circumstances that
would now govern such relief, including Alex's current wishes, circumstances,
or the practical feasibility of prospective relief. On this record, no useful
purpose would be served by remanding to resume the 2024 Family Part hearing.
Any such remand would risk an advisory ruling on a materially diff erent
controversy.
Accordingly, although defendant's current arguments are without merit on
the present record, our holding is narrow. We conclude only that the November
8, 2024 order does not warrant reversal or remand on the record before us, and
we do not address the outer limits of any post-majority visitation or parenting-
time authority in a different procedural posture.
III.
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Next, we address defendant's argument that the court should have
recalculated child support because the parties' three older children are now
adults and their circumstances raise emancipation issues. We decline to disturb
the order on the present record, but again we stress we do so without prejudice
to defendant filing a renewed application. Similarly, we do not take a position
on the merits of any filing nor do we, if such an application were filed, express
any opinion as to its outcome.
A party seeking modification of support bears the burden of making a
prima facie showing of changed circumstances. Lepis v. Lepis, 83 N.J. 139,
157-59 (1980); Dorfman v. Dorfman, 315 N.J. Super. 511 (App. Div. 1998).
Emancipation may constitute such a changed circumstance. J.B. v. W.B., 215
N.J. 305, 327 (2013). There is a presumption of emancipation at eighteen,
however, it is not determined by age alone, and the court must have an adequate
factual record to determine whether and when the dependent relationship has
ended. See Filippone v. Lee, 304 N.J. Super. 301, 308 (App. Div. 1997).
Beyond eighteen years of age, a parent's "child support obligation shall
terminate by operation of law without order by the court when a child reaches
19 years of age unless" certain requirements are met and "shall not extend
beyond the date the child reaches 23 years of age." N.J.S.A. 2A:17-56.67(a).
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Here, the record is simply deficient to grant defendant the relief requested.
Indeed, the appendix does not include the August 15 support order, the transcript
of the June hearing at which the court apparently addressed the support issues,
or a developed factual record concerning the present status of the parties ' older
children beyond their ages. Thus, while the record strongly suggests that
emancipation questions may exist as to Samantha, James, and Bianca, it
provides little information concerning whether, when, and on what basis support
may have continued for any of them.
Nor does the record adequately address how any recalculation would
interact with defendant's existing arrears or the prior judgment reducing arrears
to a civil judgment. Although the supplemented record now clarifies that the
November 2018 weekly payment was structured as $200 in current support plus
$25 toward arrears and reflects that the arrears judgment was later enforced in
February 2021, the record does not permit final resolution of any credit
defendant claims against the judgment or any claimed credits would affect the
recalculation he seeks.
We therefore affirm the support order but we do so without prejudice to
defendant's filing a renewed properly supported application in the Family Part
supported by competent proofs addressing: (1) the emancipation status of each
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of the older children and the dates of emancipation, if any; (2) whether continued
support was sought or required for any child; (3) Alex's status; and (4) the
relationship, if any, between any recalculation and defendant's arrears or prior
civil judgment.
Affirmed.
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