Gerard P. Schaben v. Amanda Brewer
CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
Date FiledAugust 19, 2026
Docket25-1339
StatusPublished
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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
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No. 25-1339
Filed August 19, 2026
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Gerard P. Schaben,
Petitioner–Appellant,
v.
Amanda Brewer,
Respondent–Appellee.
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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Shelby County,
The Honorable Eric J. Nelson, Judge.
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AFFIRMED
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Michael J. Winter, Council Bluffs, attorney for appellant.
Krisanne C. Weimer of Weimer Law, PC, Council Bluffs,
attorney for appellee.
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Considered without oral argument
by Tabor, C.J., and Ahlers and Badding, JJ.
Opinion by Ahlers, J.
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AHLERS, Judge.
Gerard Schaben and Amanda Brewer are the parents of a child born in
2015. The parents have never been married to each other, and they have not
lived together for any significant period. The parties and child lived in the
Harlan area until the mother moved to Nevada, Iowa. In response to the
mother expressing a desire for the child to move with her to Nevada, the
father filed a petition for paternity, custody, and parenting time.
The district court granted the parents joint legal custody and placed
the child in the mother’s physical care. It also established the father’s child
support obligation and a visitation schedule. It also granted the mother the
right to claim the child as a dependent on her tax returns each year.
The father appeals. He contends he should have been granted physical
care of the child. Alternatively, he argues he should have been given more
visitation time in the summer. He also challenges the court’s decision to give
the mother the right to claim the child as a dependent each year. The mother
asks us to affirm and to order the father to pay her appellate attorney fees.
I. Standard of Review
Petitions to establish visitation and custody rights under chapter 600B
(2025) are tried in equity, so our review is de novo. See Iowa Code
§ 600B.40(1); Iowa R. App. P. 6.907. We apply the same standards to
physical-care determinations for unmarried parents under chapter 600B as
we do for married parents under chapter 598. See id. § 600B.40(2) (cross-
referencing section 598.41). We give weight to the district court’s fact
findings and will affirm its decision unless it fails to do substantial equity.
Hensch v. Mysak, 902 N.W.2d 822, 824 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017).
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II. Analysis
We address each of the father’s claims in turn.
A. Physical Care
In determining which parent is granted physical care of a child, the
controlling consideration is the child’s best interest rather than perceived
fairness to the parents. In re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 695 (Iowa
2007). In making this determination, we consider the factors listed in Iowa
Code section 598.41(3) in addition to other relevant factors. Id. at 696. Our
objective is to “place the child[] in the environment most likely to bring them
to health, both physically and mentally, and to social maturity.” Id. at 695.
The father claims he should be granted physical care because (1) he is
the more suitable parent, (2) the mother will not support his relationship
with the child, (3) the child prefers to live with the father, and (4) the
mother’s self-interested reasons for moving should weigh against her for
purposes of making a physical-care determination. See Iowa Code
§ 598.41(3)(a), (e), (f ).
The father argues he is the more suitable parent to have physical care
because he has extended family in the Harlan area; he coaches the child in
baseball; they are both interested in outdoor activities like hunting, fishing,
and farming; and they enjoy spending time together. See id. at 598.41(3)(a).
While we acknowledge all these points highlighted1 by the father, following
our de novo review, we agree with these findings by the district court:
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Speaking of highlights, we note that the copy of the district court decree that the
father attached to comply with Iowa Rule of Appellate Procedure 6.903(2)(b) included
yellow highlighting that does not appear on the court file copy of the decree. Presumably
the highlights were added by the father or his attorney. As a teaching point, we believe the
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It is significant that [the mother] has been the primary caregiver for
[the child] throughout his lifetime. He has always resided within her
home. Although there were times when [the father] stayed overnight with
both of them, [the child] has never been in his father’s full-time care. Since
their breakup, [the father] has only had [the child] in his care for short
periods of time such as overnights or weekends, but never on a long-term
basis. [The mother] has always taken on the responsibility of handling the
day-to-day care and responsibilities that come with raising a child. She
schedules and takes [the child] to most of his medical appointments. She
ensures he is fed and clothed daily. She has actively attempted to assist
him in obtaining medical treatment and services to assist [the child] with
his [medical diagnoses]. She has historically been the parent who interacts
with [the child]’s teachers and school on an ongoing basis.
. . . To be sure, [the father] is an involved father who has had [the
child] in his care plenty, but it is clear that [the mother] is more suited going
forward to minister more effectively to the routine daily needs of [the
child].
Like the district court, we find the mother is better suited to have the child in
her physical care.
We also reject the father’s claim that the mother does not support his
relationship with the child. We agree with the district court’s findings that
the mother has generally supported the father’s involvement in the child’s
life, and while the mother made a few derogatory remarks about the father to
the father when the child wasn’t present, the mother does not demean the
father to the child. In contrast, the father has occasionally spoken negatively
to the child about his mother, and the father has shown a tendency to put the
child in the middle of the parents’ disputes. In the end, the court concluded
that the father’s negative feelings toward the mother have prevented him
from putting the child’s interests first, so the court determined the mother
spirit of rule 6.903(2)(b) necessitates attaching a clean, unaltered copy of the decision
being appealed.
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was more likely to support the child’s relationship with the father than he was
to support the mother’s relationship with the child. We give the district
court’s findings in this regard great weight and reject the father’s arguments
accordingly. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g); In re Marriage of Johanns,
No. 24-1900, 2025 WL 1824754, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. July 2, 2025) (relying
on the trial court’s fact findings).
The father’s next argument—that the district court should have given
more weight to the child’s preference to stay with him—also fails. First, the
only evidence of the child’s preference is the father’s self-serving testimony
that the child wants the father to have physical care. None of the father’s
other witnesses testified that the child preferred to live with the father. So,
the evidence supporting the father’s argument is weak. 2 Second, while a
child’s preference is a factor to consider, we also consider the child’s age and
maturity. See Iowa Code § 598.41(3)(f ). Here, the child was only nine years
old at the time of trial. See Herron v. Herron, 141 N.W.2d 562, 566 (Iowa 1966)
(“The wishes of a seven or eight-year-old or even a ten-year-old should be
given little if any weight since they are not of an age to exercise discretion in
choosing a custodian.”). And we agree with the district court’s assessment
that “[t]here’s nothing that the court’s heard that would indicate that [the
child] is highly mature for his age or anything to that nature.” Given the weak
evidence of preference and the lack of evidence that the child is highly mature
for his age, we reject the father’s argument that the child’s preference should
have been given more weight.
We also reject the father’s claim that the mother was failing to act in
the child’s best interests by moving. The mother had valid reasons for
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The father does not challenge the district court’s decision to not allow the child
to testify, so we do not address that issue.
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moving. The move allowed her to significantly increase her income, which
will accrue to the child’s benefit. See In re Marriage of Thielges, 623 N.W.2d
232, 238 (Iowa Ct. App. 2000) (citing valid economic reasons for a custodial
parent’s relocation). The move also resulted in increased access to medical
and educational support for the child—an important consideration given the
child’s medical diagnoses. Moreover, no evidence suggests the move was
intended to undermine the father’s visitation or relationship with the child.
See In re Marriage of Hoffman, 867 N.W.2d 26, 33 (Iowa 2025) (finding a lack
of evidence of intent to undermine the other parent’s relationship with the
child when a parent moves is a valid consideration when deciding physical
care). As much as the move to Nevada was a disruption to the child’s life, we
find it less disruptive than the father’s proposed solution, which is to uproot
the child from the daily care and routine the mother has provided for the
child’s entire life. See In re Marriage of Williams, 589 N.W.2d 759, 762 (Iowa
Ct. App. 1998) (placing greater weight on the stability in the relationship with
the parent with physical care over stability of the child’s physical setting).
So, we reject the father’s argument.
The factor that weighs most heavily in favor of granting the mother
physical care is her role as the primary caregiver before these proceedings.
See Iowa Code § 598.41(3)(d); see also Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 696 (“Stability
and continuity factors tend to favor a spouse who, prior to divorce, was
primarily responsible for physical care.”). The child has remained in her full-
time care. She sees to his daily needs. She schedules and takes him to most
of his doctor’s appointments, and she has historically communicated with his
school and teachers.
Upon our de novo review, for the reasons stated above, we conclude
the child’s best interests are served by granting the mother physical care.
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Granting the mother physical care is most likely to ensure the child is
physically and mentally healthy and socially mature. See Hansen, 733 N.W.2d
at 695. Therefore, we affirm the district court’s determination on this issue.
B. Visitation
The father argues that if we don’t grant him physical care, then we
should increase his summer visitation by essentially giving him the entire
summer. Under his proposed plan, the father would have the child
throughout the summer, with the mother having the child on alternating
weekends.
When one parent is given physical care of a child, the court must
“assure the child the opportunity for the maximum continuing physical and
emotional contact with both parents.” Iowa Code § 598.41(1)(a). As always,
the visitation schedule must serve the child’s best interests. In re Marriage of
Young, No. 25-0399, 2026 WL 221585, at *6 (Iowa Ct. App. Jan. 28, 2026).
The father argues he should have visitation for the entire summer
because he coaches the child’s baseball team and, as a farmer, he works less
in the summer. We are not persuaded that the father’s desire to participate
in coaching the child’s baseball team warrants granting the father visitation
for the entire summer under the circumstances of this case. The decree’s
visitation schedule grants the father visitation on alternating weekends and
holidays, all of spring break, and two uninterrupted weeks in both July and
August. Under the circumstances, this schedule is fair and provides the child
with the maximum opportunity to maintain physical and emotional contact
with both parents. We therefore affirm the visitation schedule set by the
district court.
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C. Claiming the Child as a Dependent
The father also takes issue with the court granting the mother the right
to claim the child as a dependent each year on her tax returns. He claims he
should get the right to claim the child every year or at least every other year.
While the mother claims the father failed to preserve error on this issue, we
find the father preserved error by raising the issue in a motion to reconsider,
enlarge or amend under Iowa Rule of Civil Procedure 1.904(2). See Meier v.
Senecaut, 641 N.W.2d 532, 537 (Iowa 2002).
The father’s argument conflicts with the general rule, which is that the
parent with physical care of a child is entitled to claim the child as a
dependent. See Iowa Ct. R. 9.6(5);3 In re Marriage of Okland, 699 N.W.2d
260, 269 (Iowa 2005). But the court can award the exemption to the
noncustodial parent “to achieve an equitable resolution of the economic
issues.” See Okland, 699 N.W.2d at 269 (citation omitted). Such an award
may be appropriate when it would “free up more money for the dependent’s
care.” Id. (citation omitted). But the father points to no evidence that
granting him the right to claim the child as a dependent would free up more
money for the child. See id. As such, we decline to stray from the general
rule, and we affirm the district court’s decision to grant the mother the right
to claim the child as a dependent.
III. Appellate Fees and Costs
The mother requests that we order the father to pay her appellate
attorney fees of $7,500. The request is supported by affidavit.
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This rule has been amended since the father filed his petition. We cite to the rule
in effect at the time his petition was filed, though we note the amendment did not
substantively change the rule.
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We have discretion to award fees to the prevailing party in this action.
See Iowa Code § 600B.26. In determining whether to award appellate fees,
we consider the needs of the party requesting fees, the ability of the other
party to pay, and whether the requesting party was obligated to defend the
decision on appeal. Benson v. Sullens, No. 24-0376, 2024 WL 4619745, at *3
(Iowa Ct. App. Oct. 30, 2024). After weighing these considerations, we order
the father to pay the mother $3,750 in appellate attorney fees.
IV. Conclusion
Having rejected each of the father’s challenges, we affirm the district
court’s ruling. We order the father to pay the mother $3,750 in appellate
attorney fees.
AFFIRMED.
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