Perez v. Carusillo
CourtSupreme Court of Connecticut
Date FiledSeptember 8, 2026
DocketSC21085
JudgeMullins; D’Auria; Ecker; Alexander; Dannehy; Bright
StatusPublished
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Perez v. Carusillo
IVAN PEREZ v. NINA CARUSILLO
(SC 21085)
Mullins, C. J., and D’Auria, Ecker, Alexander,
Dannehy and Bright, Js.*
Syllabus
The defendant appealed from the trial court’s judgment dissolving her
marriage to the plaintiff and denying her petition to adjudicate her the de
facto parent of E and C, the plaintiff’s two biological children from a prior
marriage. The parties started dating following the death of the plaintiff’s
former wife and married about eighteen months later, when E and C were
nine and seven years old, respectively. During the marriage, the defendant
formed a close relationship with the children, held them out as her own
children, and assisted the plaintiff with their upbringing. The plaintiff
encouraged and permitted the children to develop their relationships with
the defendant and allowed them to call her “mom.” He claimed, however,
that he had no intention of making the defendant the children’s legal mother
and he had declined the defendant’s numerous requests to adopt them. After
approximately five and one-half years of marriage, the plaintiff commenced
this dissolution action. In evaluating the defendant’s petition to adjudicate
her the de facto parent of E and C, the trial court found that she had estab-
lished the first six statutory (§ 46b-490 (a)) criteria for de facto parentage
by clear and convincing evidence but determined that she had failed to prove
the seventh criterion, namely, that continuing the relationship between the
defendant and the children was in their best interests. Because § 46b-490
does not enumerate specific factors for courts to consider when determin-
ing whether it is in the best interests of a child to continue a relationship,
the trial court looked to the factors set forth in the statute (§ 46b-56 (c))
governing custody and visitation determinations to guide its analysis. The
court determined that the factor set forth in § 46b-56 (c) (5), the wishes of
the children’s parents as to custody, was the factor that should be assigned
the most weight in that context. Insofar as the plaintiff opposed the defen-
dant’s petition, the court denied it and granted the plaintiff sole legal and
physical custody of the children. On appeal, the defendant claimed that the
trial court had misapplied the provisions of the Connecticut Parentage Act
(§ 46b-450 et seq.) in various ways when it denied her petition, including by
importing into the de facto parentage analysis the best interest factors set
forth in § 46b-56 (c). Held:
The defendant’s appeal was not moot as to E, even though she had reached
the age of majority during the pendency of the appeal, because the defendant
timely filed her petition seeking de facto parentage pursuant to statute
(§ 46b-491 (b)) before E had reached the age of eighteen, and a favorable
*
The listing of justices reflects their seniority status on this court as
of the date of oral argument.
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appellate determination could afford the defendant meaningful and practical
relief through legal recognition of the parent-child relationship, which gives
rise to multiple, cognizable legal interests that survive a child’s attainment
of majority age.
The trial court misapplied the statutory criterion set forth in § 46b-490 (a)
(7) in denying the defendant’s petition for adjudication as a de facto parent,
and, accordingly, this court reversed the trial court’s judgment only with
respect to the denial of her petition and remanded the case for the trial court
to evaluate the petition in accordance with the proper legal framework.
Section 46b-490 (a) (7), by its plain terms, focuses on the relationship between
the person seeking de facto parentage and the child, and asks whether con-
tinuing that relationship is in the child’s best interest, but it does not define
the phrase “best interest of the child,” set forth any factors that should be
considered in determining a child’s best interest, or refer to any other statute
that might supply such factors.
Although it was not improper for the trial court to look beyond § 46b-490 (a)
(7) for guidance concerning what factors might bear on the best interest of a
child in the de factor parentage context, the court, by importing wholesale
the factors for custody and visitation determinations set forth in § 46b-56 (c)
into the de facto parentage best interest analysis, improperly focused on the
plaintiff’s wishes as to custody rather than on the children’s best interests.
This court concluded that the factors for determining the best interest of a
child enumerated in the provision (§ 46b-475 (a)) of the Connecticut Parentage
Act, which addresses competing claims of parentage among multiple claim-
ants, provide useful and appropriate guidance for trial courts undertaking
the best interest inquiry analysis under § 46b-490 (a) (7), even if resort to
those factors may not be required in every case.
Moreover, the best interest determination under § 46b-490 (a) (7) is neces-
sarily fact intensive and holistic, and the factors enumerated in § 46b-475
(a) or any relevant factors set forth in § 46b-56 (c) do not encompass all
relevant considerations for purposes of the best interest analysis under §
46b-490 (a) (7), as the age of the child at the time of adjudication, the length
of time during which the petitioner assumed a parental role, the nature and
depth of that relationship, the harm that would result from nonrecognition
of de facto parentage, and other factors bearing on the disruption of the
relationship or the likelihood of other harm to the child can also inform the
best interest analysis.
The trial court, in concluding pursuant to § 46b-490 (a) (7), that it was not
in the children’s best interests for the defendant to be adjudicated their de
facto parent, improperly and unnecessarily focused on the heterosexual
nature of the parties’ marriage and, in effect, precluded the defendant
from prevailing on her petition merely because of the nature of the parties’
relationship, as the Connecticut Parentage Act does not condition eligibility
for de facto parentage on a petitioner’s sexual orientation, marital status,
or family structure.
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Furthermore, there was no merit to the plaintiff’s claim that, even if this
court concluded that the trial court had misapplied § 46b-490 (a) (7), a remand
was unnecessary on the ground that this court could uphold the trial court’s
denial of the defendant’s petition on the alternative ground that she had failed
to establish, by clear and convincing evidence, that the plaintiff had fostered
or supported a bonded and dependent relationship between the defendant
and the children that was parental in nature, as § 46b-490 (a) (6) requires.
Although a parent’s opposition to the adoption of his or her child is unques-
tionably relevant evidence bearing on whether that parent fostered or sup-
ported a bonded and dependent relationship that is parental in nature,
nothing in the text of § 46b-490 (a) (6) suggested that a fit parent’s refusal
to consent to adoption is dispositive of whether an individual seeking an
adjudication of de facto parentage has established the statutory criterion.
Rather, the inquiry under § 46b-490 (a) (6) is a broad and fact intensive one
that looks at the parent’s conduct throughout the course of the relationship
between the petitioner and the children.
In addition, this court declined to resolve the plaintiff’s sufficiency challenge
with respect to § 46b-490 (a) (6) before the trial court, on remand, has an
opportunity to consider all of the evidence under the proper legal framework,
as the trial court’s misapplication of § 46b-490 (a) (7) may have affected the
manner in which it evaluated evidence relevant to § 46b-490 (a) (6).
Argued April 13—officially released September 8, 2026
Procedural History
Action for the dissolution of a marriage, and for other
relief, brought to the Superior Court in the judicial
district of Middlesex, where the defendant filed a cross
complaint and a petition to adjudicate her the de facto
parent of the plaintiff’s children; thereafter, the case was
tried to the court, Sanchez-Figueroa, J.; judgment dis-
solving the marriage, denying the defendant’s petition
for de facto parenthood, and granting certain other
relief, from which the defendant appealed. Reversed in
part; further proceedings.
Leslie I. Jennings-Lax, for the appellant (defendant).
Stacie L. Provencher, with whom were Dana M. Hrelic
and, on the brief, Campbell D. Barrett, for the appellee
(plaintiff).
Opinion
DANNEHY, J. The Connecticut Parentage Act
(CPA), General Statutes § 46b-450 et seq., establishes
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a comprehensive framework for establishing legal parent-
child relationships in Connecticut. Among the multiple
statutory avenues through which a person may establish
legal parent status, one permits a court to adjudicate a
person a child’s de facto parent upon proof, by clear and
convincing evidence, of the seven criteria set forth in
General Statutes § 46b-490 (a). This appeal requires us
to consider the meaning and proper application of certain
criteria in that section.
The defendant, Nina Carusillo, appeals from the judg-
ment of the trial court dissolving her marriage to the
plaintiff, Ivan Perez, and denying her petition to be
adjudicated the de facto parent of the plaintiff’s two
biological daughters from his previous marriage. The
defendant claims that the trial court misapplied the CPA
in various respects including, for example, by importing
into the de facto parentage analysis the best interest
factors governing custody and parenting plan determi-
nations. We agree and, accordingly, reverse in part the
judgment of the trial court.
I
BACKGROUND
The plaintiff and the defendant were married on
December 19, 2016. On January 18, 2022, the plaintiff
commenced this dissolution action, alleging that the
marriage had broken down irretrievably. The defendant
filed an answer and cross complaint, seeking, among other
relief, an adjudication pursuant to § 46b-490 that she is
the de facto parent of E, born in September 2007, and
C, born in April 2009.
Following a multiday trial on the plaintiff’s dissolu-
tion complaint and the defendant’s de facto parentage
petition, the court rendered judgment dissolving the
parties’ marriage and denying the defendant’s petition.
In denying the defendant’s petition, the court made
extensive findings regarding the parties’ relationship,
the defendant’s relationship with the children, and the
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circumstances surrounding the children’s upbringing.
We begin with a summary of those findings.
A
At the time of trial, the plaintiff was fifty-four years
old and employed as a mental health counselor at a Con-
necticut mental health center. He had previously worked
as a fire captain for a municipal fire department for
twenty-six years and retired from that position in 2016.
The defendant was forty-nine years old and worked as a
physician assistant in the gynecological oncology depart-
ment at a New Haven hospital.
Prior to the parties’ marriage, the plaintiff had been
married to a woman named Rose, who is the biological
mother of E and C. Rose was diagnosed with stage four
cancer in 2013 and died in January 2015. Rose’s illness
and death were hard on the plaintiff. He managed, at
least initially, with the help of his mother and sister. His
mother moved into the family home to assist with the
care of the children. With their support, the plaintiff was
able to balance his two careers, spend some overnights
with Rose at the hospital, and maintain a semblance of
normalcy for his children.
The plaintiff and the defendant first met during Rose’s
treatment. The defendant worked on Rose’s treatment
team and, through that role, became well acquainted with
the plaintiff, the children, and Rose’s extended family.
During the period of Rose’s illness, the children knew
the defendant as “mommy’s doctor.” The defendant was
very fond of the children, having interacted informally
with them during that time.
Following Rose’s death, the plaintiff and the defen-
dant remained in contact. The defendant had helped
the children sell Girl Scout cookies, taking orders from
many of her coworkers, which resulted in a need to deliver
hundreds of boxes of cookies. Although the plaintiff had
vowed never to return to the hospital where Rose had
been treated following Rose’s death, he found himself
obligated to deliver the cookies there in late March or
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early April 2015. During that visit, the parties spoke
briefly, and the defendant asked whether the plaintiff
would return to share photographs of E’s upcoming
recitals or first communion celebration. He did so the
following month.
Soon thereafter, the plaintiff encountered the defen-
dant again. Because his place of employment is located
across the street from the hospital where the defendant
works, the plaintiff frequently dined at its cafeteria and
happened to see the defendant there during one such
visit. They exchanged small talk about the children, and
the defendant again asked him to share photographs of
an upcoming event. A few weeks later, in May 2015, the
plaintiff returned to the hospital to share photographs of
E’s first communion. Following that visit, the plaintiff
asked the defendant to join him for appetizers. Although
the defendant was initially reluctant, believing the plain-
tiff was still grieving, she ultimately agreed. The parties
began dating in June 2015.
As the relationship developed, the defendant became
increasingly involved in the children’s lives. During 2015
and 2016, she regularly participated in family activities
with the plaintiff and the children, including trips to the
beach, attendance at community events, holiday celebra-
tions, and a family trip to Cape Cod. She also began visit-
ing the plaintiff’s home more frequently, spending time
with both the plaintiff and the children there. Members
of Rose’s extended family also included the defendant in
family gatherings and activities involving the children.
The defendant developed an intimate and affectionate
relationship with the girls.1
The parties’ relationship became more serious in 2016,
and the plaintiff proposed to the defendant in November
1
The trial court found that the children “clearly enjoyed” their time
together with the defendant, “as the evidence shows that, during the
Durham Fair, the girls were holding the parties’ hands. During the par-
ties’ trip to Cape Cod in October 2015, the parties and the girls stayed
in a hotel, shared a room and each of the parties shared a twin-size bed
with one of the girls. During Thanksgiving of 2015, the testimony
showed that the plaintiff was having emotional difficulty around the
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of that year. The children reacted to the engagement with
great excitement, and the parties married the following
month.2 Although the defendant initially continued to
maintain her separate residence in a nearby town, she
spent substantial time at the plaintiff’s home with the
children and eventually sold her home and moved into
the plaintiff’s home on a full-time basis in May 2018.
After moving in full-time, the defendant resided in
the plaintiff’s home until late January or early February
2020, when, following a disagreement, the plaintiff asked
her to leave. The defendant returned to the plaintiff’s
home in June 2020, when both parties decided to work
on the marriage. The defendant continued to live there
until August 2022, when, after the dissolution action
was commenced, the court ordered that the plaintiff
have exclusive possession of the property.
While the parties lived together, they jointly partici-
pated in caring for the children and shared the day-to-day
parenting responsibilities, including preparing meals
and transporting them to various activities and medical
appointments. Although the defendant regularly assisted
with the children’s daily care, these responsibilities
were not hers solely, and she was not the primary deci-
sion maker for the children. The plaintiff was the sole
first holidays after Rose’s passing, and Thanksgiving dinner was held at
the defendant’s home . . . . During the Christmas holiday in 2015, the
parties and the girls celebrated together in the [plaintiff’s] home. The
credible testimony from the parties and the witnesses revealed that the
defendant began to have increased contact with the girls and developed
a more intimate relationship with them.”
2
Around this time, the plaintiff had made the decision to retire from
the fire department, where he had worked for the past twenty-six years.
The department’s human resources office informed him that, “if he were
to marry prior to his retirement, the spousal benefits of 60 percent of
his pension would be preserved.” The trial court found that the parties,
after discussions, agreed to expedite their wedding date prior to his
retirement. The court found that the plaintiff “wanted the defendant
to have this benefit, hoping also that he would be the first to die as he
did not want to experience a similar loss again.” The court also found
that the defendant agreed to the expedited marriage in order to secure
the financial benefits she believed would help the children if something
were to happen to the plaintiff.
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decision maker for the children’s schedules, appoint-
ments, transportation, and overall care, coordinating
any assistance provided by the defendant or others. As
to finances, the plaintiff was the sole financial provider
for the children’s medical, educational, and religious
needs, and paid the household expenses, including the
defendant’s health insurance and the children’s expenses.
The defendant contributed by purchasing groceries and
financially supporting some of the children’s activities.
The plaintiff likewise continued to make decisions
regarding the children’s religious upbringing in the
Roman Catholic faith, including arranging for their
receipt of the holy sacraments, religious education, and
confirmation preparation. The defendant supported those
efforts by assisting them with learning their prayers,
transporting them to Confraternity of Christian Doc-
trine (CCD) classes and church activities, and helping
them complete confirmation requirements. Although not
Catholic herself, the defendant supported the plaintiff’s
decision to raise the children in that faith and became
increasingly involved in helping them through their
religious milestones.
The defendant filled various gaps in the children’s
upbringing. She assisted with personal care and puberty
related matters, including helping them style their hair
in ways that the plaintiff found difficult, and helped
them learn to use feminine hygiene products. She also
helped them complete homework, proofread papers, write
poetry, and served as an additional source of emotional
and physical support. The children developed a close and
loving bond with the defendant, and the defendant held
them out as her own children. The children consider the
defendant’s parents their additional grandparents and
the defendant’s sister their aunt. The plaintiff acknowl-
edged that the defendant and the children have a good
relationship and that the defendant is nurturing and
compassionate; he encouraged and supported their bond
and welcomed the defendant’s contributions.3
3
The guardian ad litem for the children testified that the defendant
“did things as a mother would do” and “acted as a parent in every way.”
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At some point, the children asked the plaintiff to
allow them to call the defendant “mom,” explaining
that it would be easier for them in public and would allow
them to fit in with their peers. Although the plaintiff
was initially hesitant, he recognized that, having lost
their mother, they wished to be like other children, and
he approved their request. He testified that he had no
intention of making the defendant the children’s legal
mother and that he had declined the defendant’s numer-
ous requests to adopt them; nonetheless, he encouraged
and permitted the children to develop their relation-
ships with her. The plaintiff himself gave the defendant
Mother’s Day cards from 2017 through 2022.
Although the defendant left the plaintiff’s home for
periods of time, particularly from January or February
through June 2020, and again in August 2022 through
the time of the dissolution hearing, that separation did
not affect the relationship between the defendant and the
children. The defendant maintained access to the children
during those times, and she still slept at the plaintiff’s
home at certain times during the 2020 separation.
B
After making extensive findings, the trial court then
evaluated the criteria for establishing de facto parent-
age under § 46b-490 (a). That provision, which will be
discussed in greater detail in part II of this opinion,
requires that the person seeking to be adjudicated the de
facto parent satisfy seven statutory criteria by clear and
convincing evidence. See General Statutes § 46b-490 (a)
(1) through (7). The court found that the first six statu-
tory criteria for de facto parentage had been proven by
clear and convincing evidence but concluded that the
defendant failed to prove the seventh criterion—that
“[c]ontinuing the relationship between the person and
According to the guardian ad litem, the children “already refer to [the
defendant] as mom” and “want [the defendant] to be mom.” The guard-
ian ad litem further testified that she reviewed text messages between
the defendant and the children, which appeared loving, appropriate,
and indicative of the relationship that had developed between them.
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the child is in the best interest of the child.” General
Statutes § 46b-490 (a) (7).
As to that seventh criterion, the trial court observed
that § 46b-490 (a) (7) does not enumerate specific factors
for courts to consider in determining whether continu-
ing the relationship between the person and the child
is in the best interest of the child. The court reasoned,
however, that the legislature’s use of the phrase “best
interest” was significant because courts are regularly
required to make best interest determinations when
resolving custody and visitation disputes. The court
therefore concluded that the factors set forth in General
Statutes § 46b-56 (c),4 governing custody and visitation
4
General Statutes § 46b-56 (c) provides: “In making or modifying any
order as provided in subsections (a) and (b) of this section, the court shall
consider the best interests of the child, and in doing so, may consider,
but shall not be limited to, one or more of the following factors: (1) The
physical and emotional safety of the child; (2) the temperament and
developmental needs of the child; (3) the capacity and the disposition
of the parents to understand and meet the needs of the child; (4) any
relevant and material information obtained from the child, including the
informed preferences of the child; (5) the wishes of the child’s parents
as to custody; (6) the past and current interaction and relationship of
the child with each parent, the child’s siblings and any other person
who may significantly affect the best interests of the child; (7) the
willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage such
continuing parent-child relationship between the child and the other
parent as is appropriate, including compliance with any court orders; (8)
any manipulation by or coercive behavior of the parents in an effort to
involve the child in the parents’ dispute; (9) the ability of each parent to
be actively involved in the life of the child; (10) the child’s adjustment
to his or her home, school and community environments; (11) the length
of time that the child has lived in a stable and satisfactory environment
and the desirability of maintaining continuity in such environment,
provided the court may consider favorably a parent who voluntarily
leaves the child’s family home pendente lite in order to alleviate stress
in the household; (12) the stability of the child’s existing or proposed
residences, or both; (13) the mental and physical health of all individuals
involved, except that a disability of a proposed custodial parent or other
party, in and of itself, shall not be determinative of custody unless the
proposed custodial arrangement is not in the best interests of the child;
(14) the child’s cultural background; (15) the effect on the child of the
actions of an abuser, if any domestic violence, as defined in section 46b-
1, has occurred between the parents or between a parent and another
individual or the child; (16) whether the child or a sibling of the child
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determinations, should be considered in making its best
interest determination in the de facto parentage context.
The trial court proceeded to explain that “the wishes
of the [children’s] parents as to custody,” as contem-
plated in § 46b-56 (c) (5) of the custody statute, was the
factor that “should be assigned the most weight in this
context.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) Relying
on the plaintiff’s opposition to the defendant’s peti-
tion, the court concluded “that it is in the best inter-
ests of the children for the plaintiff to have sole legal
and physical custody of them.” Although finding that
the defendant had developed a loving, trusting, and
parental bond with the children, and acknowledging
both the children’s stated preference and the recom-
mendation of the guardian ad litem (GAL) in favor of
de facto parentage, the court stated that “the wishes
of a child’s fit and sole parent as to custody carry as
much if not greater weight than the recommendation
of a GAL in a situation like this [in which] the nature of
the relationship did not go beyond that of a typical het-
erosexual relationship.” The court stated that, “[when]
a fit single parent opposes a third party’s claim of de
facto parentage over a child in the context of a typical
heterosexual relationship that began after the parent’s
status as a legal parent over the child was established,
a GAL’s recommendation may not be enough to over-
power the wishes of a fit parent.” (Emphasis omitted.)
The trial court further reasoned that granting de
facto parentage under these circumstances would be
inconsistent with the legislative purpose underlying
the CPA. Examining the CPA’s legislative history, the
court concluded that it was enacted principally to address
inequities affecting same-sex couples, unmarried couples,
and families formed through assisted reproduction, not
to elevate a stepparent in a traditional heterosexual
has been abused or neglected, as defined respectively in section 46b-120;
and (17) whether the party satisfactorily completed participation in a
parenting education program established pursuant to section 46b-69b.
The court is not required to assign any weight to any of the factors that
it considers, but shall articulate the basis for its decision.”
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marriage to legal parent status over the objection of a
fit parent. Although the court acknowledged that the
CPA does not categorically prohibit a stepparent in a
heterosexual marriage from obtaining de facto parent
status, it expressed the view that the CPA’s provisions
“are generally not appropriately applied to situations
concerning parentage in married heterosexual relation-
ships.” The court viewed the defendant as a soon to be
former stepparent whose claim to legal parentage lacked
clear support within the intended scope of the CPA.
The trial court also identified practical concerns coun-
seling against shared parentage, including the parties’
inability to communicate effectively or jointly make
parenting decisions. Although the court acknowledged
the children’s maturity and their stated desire that the
petition be granted, it concluded that those preferences
were not dispositive and carried less weight than the
plaintiff’s constitutional rights as a fit parent. Finally,
the trial court observed that the children, who were
already sixteen and fifteen years old, respectively, would
soon reach adulthood and would thereafter be capable
of maintaining their relationship with the defendant
independently. Accordingly, the court denied the defen-
dant’s petition for de facto parentage. At the same time,
however, recognizing the significance of the defendant’s
long-standing relationship with the children, the court
awarded her third-party visitation. This appeal followed.5
II
DISCUSSION
The defendant advances numerous arguments in sup-
port of her claim that the trial court misconstrued the
provisions of § 46b-490 in adjudicating her de facto par-
entage petition. Before we can reach the merits of those
arguments, however, we must first address a threshold
jurisdictional issue.
5
The defendant appealed from the judgment of the trial court to the
Appellate Court, and we transferred the appeal to this court pursuant
to General Statutes § 51-199 (c) and Practice Book § 65-1.
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A
General Statutes § 46b-491 (b) provides in relevant
part that “[a] person seeking to be adjudicated a de facto
parent of a child shall file a petition with the court before
the child reaches eighteen years of age. . . .” Although
there is no dispute that the defendant timely filed her
petition before either child reached the age of eighteen,
the defendant has informed us that, during the pendency
of this appeal, E turned eighteen. There is some sugges-
tion in the briefing that E’s attainment of age eighteen
may render this appeal moot with respect to E.
“Mootness implicates [this] court’s subject matter
jurisdiction and is thus a threshold matter for us to
resolve.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) Dutkiewicz
v. Dutkiewicz, 289 Conn. 362, 366, 957 A.2d 821 (2008).
“It is a [well settled] general rule that the existence of an
actual controversy is an essential requisite to appellate
jurisdiction; it is not the province of appellate courts to
decide moot questions, disconnected from the granting
of actual relief or from the determination of which no
practical relief can follow.” (Internal quotation marks
omitted.) In re Emma F., 315 Conn. 414, 423, 107 A.3d
947 (2015). “[A]n actual controversy must exist not
only at the time the appeal is taken, but also throughout
the pendency of the appeal. . . . When, during the pen-
dency of an appeal, events have occurred that preclude
an appellate court from granting any practical relief
through its disposition of the merits, a case has become
moot.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) Williams
v. Ragaglia, 261 Conn. 219, 225, 802 A.2d 778 (2002).
The defendant contends that E’s attainment of major-
ity age does not render the appeal moot. She argues
that the CPA requires only that a petition be com-
menced before the child reaches eighteen years of age
and that nothing in the statutory scheme requires that
the proceedings be fully adjudicated before that time.
The defendant further contends that practical relief
remains available to her because an adjudication of de
facto parentage carries significant legal consequences
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that extend beyond a child’s minority. Specifically, she
argues that recognition of a legal parent-child relation-
ship establishes enduring kinship rights and obligations
affecting, among other things, probate and inheritance
matters, conservatorship and guardianship proceedings,
the administration of estates, medical decision-making,
disposition of remains, and other incidents of familial
status.
The plaintiff does not take a definitive position on
the issue of mootness. He acknowledges that the plain
language of § 46b-491 (b) requires only that the petition
be filed before the child reaches eighteen years of age,
but he notes that no Connecticut appellate court has yet
addressed whether a de facto parentage action remains
justiciable after a child attains majority age during the
pendency of the proceedings.
The plaintiff is correct that no court of this state has
addressed whether a child’s attainment of age eighteen
renders moot a timely filed petition to establish de facto
parentage of that child under the CPA. The Appellate
Court has, however, addressed the effect of a child’s
attaining age eighteen during the pendency of other
family law appeals—specifically, appeals challenging a
trial court’s custody or visitation orders. See, e.g., A.
A.-M. v. M. Z., 225 Conn. App. 46, 54–55, 313 A.3d
1288 (2024); Nowacki v. Nowacki, 144 Conn. App. 503,
508–509, 72 A.3d 1245, cert. denied, 310 Conn. 939, 79
A.3d 891 (2013). The Appellate Court has held that a
child’s attainment of age eighteen renders moot an appeal
challenging a custody or visitation order because no
practical relief remains available to the appellant in those
circumstances. E.g., A. A.-M. v. M. Z., supra, 54–55;
Nowacki v. Nowacki, supra, 508–509. Those decisions
appear to rest on the premise that existing custody and
visitation orders terminate by operation of law when a
child turns eighteen and that a court lacks jurisdiction
to issue such orders with respect to a person of that age.
See, e.g., A. A.-M. v. M. Z., supra, 54–55; Nowacki v.
Nowacki, supra, 508–509.
Perez v. Carusillo
The relief sought by the defendant in the present
appeal, however, is materially different from the relief
sought in cases solely involving custody and visitation
orders. The defendant seeks an adjudication of legal
parentage itself—a determination that, unlike a chal-
lenge to custody or visitation orders, is not dependent
on the child’s status as a minor. Indeed, recognition of
a legal parent-child relationship gives rise to a constel-
lation of cognizable legal interests that survive a child’s
attainment of majority age. See, e.g., General Statutes
§ 7-294mm (notification of death); General Statutes §
19a-571 (removal of life support); General Statutes § 45a-
437 (intestate succession); General Statutes § 45a-438b
(inheritance). Thus, even though E has now turned eigh-
teen years of age, a favorable appellate determination
could still afford the defendant meaningful and practical
relief through legal recognition of that relationship. We
therefore conclude that the present appeal is not moot
as it pertains to E.6
B
Turning to the merits of the defendant’s claim, we
address her contention that, although the trial court
6
Our conclusion that the present appeal is not moot as to E is buttressed
by the plain language of § 46b-491 (b). As the parties aptly recognize,
that statute requires that a person seeking to be adjudicated a de facto
parent of a child “file a petition with the court before the child reaches
eighteen years of age”; it does not, however, require that the litigation
be completed, or that judgment be rendered, before the child reaches
that age. General Statutes § 46b-491 (b). This strongly suggests that a
petition to be adjudicated a child’s de facto parent can be adjudicated
after the child turns eighteen, so long as the petition is timely filed
before the child turns eighteen. Notably, the CPA defines “ ‘[c]hild’ ”
as “a person of any age whose parentage may be determined under [§§]
46b-450 to 46b-553, inclusive.” General Statutes § 46b-451 (6). This
further suggests that a de facto parentage petition can be adjudicated
after a child turns eighteen.
The plaintiff points out, however, that E’s attainment of majority age
could have practical consequences if the case is remanded for further
proceedings concerning the de facto parentage claim, most notably,
that adjudication of parentage at that time would affect the rights
of a person who is now a legal adult. The plaintiff’s concern warrants
attention. Significantly, the CPA is silent as to the effect of a child’s
Perez v. Carusillo
correctly determined that she had proven by clear and
convincing evidence the first six criteria for de facto
parentage under the CPA; see General Statutes § 46b-
490 (a) (1) through (6); it erred in concluding that she
had failed to prove the seventh criterion set forth in §
46b-490 (a) (7)—that continuation of the relationship
between her and the children was in the children’s best
interests. In support of her claim, the defendant argues
that the trial court improperly imported the custodial
best interest factors set forth in § 46b-56 (c) into its
de facto parentage analysis and accorded dispositive
weight to the plaintiff’s wishes based on that provision
and the plaintiff’s constitutional rights as a fit parent,
effectively giving the plaintiff unilateral veto power
over her parentage claim. She also argues that the trial
court improperly and inappropriately focused on the
heterosexual nature of the parties’ marriage, suggesting
that the CPA was primarily meant to apply to same-sex
couples and not to a stepparent under the circumstances
presented in this case. The defendant argues that the
trial court’s construction and application of the CPA are
inconsistent with both its text and purpose.
The plaintiff in response argues that the trial court
did not misapply § 46b-490 (a) (7) in concluding that the
defendant had failed to prove by clear and convincing
evidence that granting her de facto parentage petition
is in the children’s best interests. Although he provides
little explanation for why it was appropriate for the trial
court to import the best interest factors set forth in §
46b-56 (c) in assessing the defendant’s de facto parent-
age claim, or why the heterosexual nature of the parties’
relationship was relevant to the inquiry, he contends
that the concept of best interes