G.W.G. v. V.M.G.
CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
Date FiledNovember 13, 2026
DocketCL-2026-0295
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ALABAMA COURT OF CIVIL APPEALS
OCTOBER TERM, 2026-2027
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G.W.G.
v.
V.M.G.
Appeals from Autauga Circuit Court
(DR-22-900205.01 and CV-23-66)
PER CURIAM.
In appeal number CL-2026-0219, G.W.G. ("the father") appeals
from a judgment entered by the Autauga Circuit Court ("the trial court")
that modified the custody of B.W.G., S.M.G., and C.W.G. ("the children"),
modified the father's child-support obligation, restrained the father from
going within 300 feet of the residence of V.W.G. ("the mother"), restrained
the father from surveilling the mother and the children, limited the
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father to supervised visitation with the children, and ordered the father
to be solely responsible for the costs associated with the supervised
visitation. In appeal number CL-2026-0295, the father appeals from a
final protection-from-abuse ("PFA") order also entered by the trial court.
Procedural Background
On January 3, 2023, the trial court entered a judgment divorcing
the parties ("the divorce judgment"). The divorce judgment incorporated
a settlement agreement entered between the parties, pursuant to which
the mother and the father were awarded joint legal and joint physical
custody of the children on an alternating weekly custodial schedule and
were restrained from harassing each other or speaking derogatorily
about the other in the presence of the children.
On November 9, 2023, the mother filed in the trial court a petition
seeking to hold the father in contempt because he had allegedly violated
the provisions of the divorce judgment that prohibited him from
harassing the mother; that action ("the contempt action") was assigned
case number DR-22-900205.01. The mother also sought a modification of
custody to award her sole legal and sole physical custody of the children.
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On December 22, 2023, the trial court appointed Nancy Kirby as the
guardian ad litem for the children.
On December 15, 2023, the mother, pursuant to the Protection from
Abuse Act ("the Act"), Ala. Code 1975, § 30-5-1 et seq., commenced in the
trial court an action seeking a PFA order against the father; that action
("the PFA action") was assigned case number CV-23-66. On December
18, 2023, the trial court, ex mero motu, consolidated the PFA action with
the contempt action (referred to collectively as "the consolidated
actions").
On December 22, 2023, the father filed in the trial court a motion
seeking injunctive relief. According to his motion, the father was
arrested on December 19, 2023, on a charge of third-degree domestic
violence, harassing communications, with the mother as the victim. As
a condition of the father's release, the Prattville Municipal Court ("the
municipal court") had ordered that he could communicate with the
children telephonically but that he was to have no physical contact with
the children. Those conditions of release were to be reevaluated upon the
father's undergoing a mental evaluation. In his motion filed in the trial
court, the father requested that, pending a scheduled pendente lite
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hearing, the parties be ordered to continue the "two, two, three" custodial
schedule that they had been exercising by agreement.
A pendente lite hearing was conducted on January 9, 2024, by a
special master who had been appointed by the trial court. On January
12, 2024, the trial court ratified the special master's recommendations
that the father exercise four hours of daytime visitation with the
children, twice per week, with the visits being supervised by the father's
aunt, unless conditions of release from the father's pending criminal
charges prohibited that agreement, and that the father have
telephone/videoconferencing calls with the children nightly between 5:30
p.m. and 6:00 p.m. The trial court also ratified the special master's
recommendations that the mother and the father attend coparenting
counseling with Thea Langley, a marriage and family therapist employed
by Fountain City Counseling; that neither party remove the children
from the jurisdiction of the trial court without prior court approval; that
neither party discuss the pending legal actions with the children or speak
disparagingly of the other parent in the presence of the children; and that
the father continue with his mental-health treatment.
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On February 26, 2024, the father filed a motion seeking a stay of
the consolidated actions; he filed a similar motion on April 23, 2024.
According to the February 2024 motion, the father had been arrested on
February 23, 2024, and was being held at the Autauga County Jail. The
father's April 2024 motion expanded on his February 2024 motion and
explained that the father had four criminal charges pending against him
and that, because those charges stemmed from the same common nucleus
of operative facts as those underlying the consolidated actions, he would
be required to waive his Fifth Amendment privilege against self-
incrimination, see U.S. Const., amend. V, to defend against the
consolidated actions. The trial court denied the father's February 2024
motion to stay on February 27, 2024. The trial court ordered that a
hearing be conducted on the father's April 2024 motion to stay. Following
that hearing, the trial court, on May 13, 2024, entered an order staying
the consolidated actions for so long as the father's criminal charges
remained pending.
Despite the consolidated actions being stayed and despite his being
represented by counsel, on July 8, 2024, the father, acting pro se, filed a
handwritten motion in the trial court. In his pro se motion, the father
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denied that he had ever been violent toward the mother or that he had
ever threatened violence toward her. The father further alleged that the
mother had engaged in behavior with the intent to alienate the father
and his family from the children. The father requested that the trial
court ensure that his family had equal access to the children. A hearing
on the father's pro se motion was scheduled to occur on September 16,
2024.
On September 9, 2024, the mother filed a motion seeking to
temporarily suspend the father's visitation with the children. According
to the mother, the father had been arrested on April 19, 2024, for second-
degree aggravated stalking. The mother's motion further alleged that,
on August 17, 2024, the father had pleaded guilty in the municipal court
to violating a "CV Protection Order," that he had been sentenced to serve
90 days in the Autauga Metro Jail, and that the father was scheduled to
be released from jail on or about September 15, 2024. The mother alleged
that, during his incarceration, the father had begun sending cards
addressed to the family to her home, which, she said, purported to be
messages to the children. The mother further alleged that the content of
those messages had not been appropriate for the children. On September
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6, 2024, the trial court granted the mother's motion, temporarily
suspending the father's visitation with the children and ordering the
father to submit to a mental-health evaluation and to begin "prescribed
treatment prior to reinstatement of any visitation." The trial court also
canceled the September 16, 2024, hearing on the father's pro se motion
until the trial court was "notified [the father] ha[d] complied" with its
September 6, 2024, order.
A status conference was scheduled to occur on November 14, 2024.
Before that conference, the parties and the guardian ad litem filed a joint
status report in the trial court. According to that joint report, on October
11, 2024, the father had undergone a mental-health evaluation and had
received a prescribed treatment plan. The joint report requested that the
trial court continue the November 14, 2024, status conference to a later
date to allow the father time to begin mental-health treatment. On
November 13, 2024, the trial court canceled the November 14, 2024,
status conference.
On January 17, 2025, the trial court, ex mero motu, entered an
order assigning the consolidated actions to Judge Deanne Calhoun. On
February 19, 2025, the trial court entered an order scheduling a status
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conference to occur on March 13, 2025. That order also required the
father to provide an update on his mental-health treatment and on
whether the consolidated actions were ready for trial. On February 25,
2025, the father filed a motion informing the trial court that his criminal
charges remained pending and requesting that the status conference be
either continued or canceled. The father's motion was granted on March
3, 2025, when the trial court entered an order directing that the status
conference be removed from the docket. That order also required the
father to file a status report on June 3, 2025.
On May 28, 2025, the father filed a status report indicating that,
because of outstanding discovery, the consolidated actions were not ripe
for trial. The father's status report further informed the trial court that
he had completed a psychological evaluation and that all but one of his
criminal charges had been dismissed.1 Despite the remaining criminal
1An order of dismissal with prejudice appended to the father's
status report indicated that, on May 12, 2025, the trial court had granted
the City of Prattville's oral motion to dismiss a charge of third-degree
domestic violence against the father. That exhibit also indicated that a
charge of third-degree domestic violence, harassing communications,
would be proceeding to trial. A second document appended to the father's
status report indicated that, on May 13, 2025, a trial had been conducted
on the remaining domestic-violence charge and that the jury had found
the father not guilty.
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charge, the father requested that the trial court vacate the pendente lite
orders that limited his contact with the children and order the parties to
return to exercising the joint-physical-custody award set forth in the
divorce judgment. The father also requested that a pendente lite hearing
be scheduled and that the trial court enter a scheduling order
establishing discovery deadlines and a trial date. On June 4, 2025, the
trial court entered a scheduling order that provided for certain discovery
deadlines and scheduled a trial to occur on September 10, 2025, which
date was subsequently continued to October 21, 2025.
The trial court entered an order on October 21, 2025, indicating that
the trial had been commenced on that date but had not been concluded.
The trial was scheduled to resume on November 4, 2025. Pending the
conclusion of the trial, the trial court awarded the father 3 hours of
supervised visitation on certain days, allowed the father to have
monitored telephone calls with the children, restrained the father from
going within 300 feet of the mother's residence and her place of
employment, and ordered the parties to download a parenting application
to use as their exclusive means of communication.
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The second day of the trial was conducted on November 4, 2025. On
November 5, 2025, the mother filed a motion to show cause, which she
later supplemented. In her supplemented motion, the mother alleged
that the father had a history of communicating with her under the
pseudonym "John Tyler" and that, following the first day of the trial, the
mother had begun receiving e-mails from "John Tyler" that contained
confidential information regarding her boyfriend, which, she asserted,
only the father could have known. The mother appended copies of the
newly received e-mails to her motion. One of those e-mails described the
exterior of the mother's house and where her boyfriend's automobile was
parked in her driveway. The mother's motion alleged that the father had
violated those portions of the October 21, 2025, order that required that
all communication between the parties go through the parenting
application and prohibited the father from going within 300 feet of the
mother's residence. The mother requested, among other things, that the
trial court suspend the father's visitation with the children and direct the
father to appear and show cause why he should not be held in contempt
of court.
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In his November 11, 2025, response to the mother's motion, the
father denied that he had committed the acts the mother alleged. His
response further argued that the mother and her boyfriend had had the
motive and opportunity to send the e-mail messages in question to
sabotage the father's case with false allegations. The father appended to
his response text messages that he had received from the mother's
boyfriend that he said supported his assertion that the mother and her
boyfriend were the source of the e-mail messages that the mother had
received from "John Tyler." The father requested that the trial court
deny the mother's motion to show cause and that the mother's motion
and accompanying exhibits be struck from the record as hearsay.
Alternatively, the father requested that the trial court schedule the
matter for a third day of trial so that the mother's boyfriend could be
called as a witness.
In the mother's reply to the father's response, she refuted the
father's assertion that he was not the source of the harassing e-mails and
disputed that the e-mails that were appended to her motion were
inadmissible hearsay because, she said, those e-mails constituted an
admission by a party opponent and were therefore not hearsay. The
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mother requested that the trial court deny the father's request to strike
her motion to show cause.
On January 12, 2026, the trial court entered a judgment that
contained the following findings of fact:
"1. The parties were previously married and divorced.
The parties have three minor children together.... The parties
share joint legal, joint physical custody of the minor
children….
"2. The [f]ather's visitation was suspended by [o]rder
of the [c]ourt on September 8, 2024[,] and he was [o]rdered to
submit to a psychological assessment prior to reinstatement
of visitation. At the time of the first day of trial, the [father]
had exercised one 1-hour supervised visit with the minor
children which took place at the Autauga County Courthouse,
a 3-hour supervised visit at the Millbrook Boo Festival, and a
3-hour supervised visit at Pratt Park. The visits were
supervised by Lauren Calloway with the Bridge Center. The
[father] had also been having monitored phone and/or video
calls with the minor children. Prior to day two of [f]inal
[h]earing[,] the [c]ourt ordered additional supervised
visitation for the [father].
"3. The [father] has a pending felony charge for
aggravated stalking related to the [mother]. Father plead[ed]
guilty to violation of the [PFA] Order and was sentenced to
serve 90 days in jail. While in jail, the [f]ather sent letters to
the [mother's] home addressed to [the family] dated August
22, 2024[,] and August 28, 2024.
"4. The [father] had paid $600 in support since
December 2023. The [father] testified that he believed
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sending a check to support the children would have been in
violation of the [PFA] Order. Father made no efforts to send
money through the guardian ad litem. …
"5. The [father] suffers from social anxiety and
depression. He reportedly takes medication for
mental[-]health symptoms. The [father] was unemployed at
the time of trial[] but is employable. His testimony about
employment was inconsistent with his reports to his mental[-
]health professional. The [father] is trained law enforcement.
"6. The [mother] lives in Prattville. The [m]aternal
[g]randmother lives with the [mother]. [The m]aternal
[g]randmother assists with transport and pickup of the minor
children. …
"7. [The p]aternal [g]randmother lives in Louisiana.
Throughout this case [the p]aternal [g]randmother has been
aggressive in her communication with attorneys and
[g]uardian ad litem. [The p]aternal [g]randmother works in
law enforcement. [The p]aternal [g]randmother used her
resources to track down the [mother] and children after she
relocated without notice. Due to inappropriate [c]ourt
conduct, the [p]aternal [g]randmother was ordered to leave
the [c]ourtroom during day 1 of [f]inal [h]earing. [The
p]aternal [g]randmother is not a suitable supervisor for the
[father's] visitation.
"8. The [mother] received numerous harassing
e[-]mails which she testified [had] been sent by the [f]ather
under a fictitious identity. Based upon the evidence before the
[c]ourt, the [c]ourt is convinced the e[-]mails were in fact
generated at the hands of the [father], even though he denies
any responsibility. This [c]ourt is concerned that the [father]
has an unhealthy fixation with the [mother], her
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relationships, and her whereabouts. The [father's] testimony
was not credible as to his knowledge of the e[-]mails received
by the [mother].
"9. The [father] has threatened to remove the minor
children from the jurisdiction of this [c]ourt. This [c]ourt finds
the [father] is obsessed with control of the [mother], even to
the degree of using visitation with his children to advance his
agenda. [The father] does not shield the children from adult
conflict."
Based on the above findings of fact, the trial court ordered:
"1. A material change in circumstances has occurred
since entry of the prior judgment of custody which warrants a
change of custody.
"2. The [c]ourt finds it to be in the … children's best
interest and hereby GRANTS the [mother's] Complaint for
Modification and AWARDS the [mother] sole legal, sole
physical custody of the … children subject to the [father's]
supervised visitation.
"3. The [father] shall not go within 300 feet of the
[mother's] residence. Further, the [father] shall not cause a
third person to act on his behalf to cause surveillance of the
[mother] or [the] children.
"4. The parties shall communicate exclusively via Our
Family Wizard app[lication]. Communication shall only be
about the ... children. The [father] is restrained from having
any contact with the [mother] outside of the Our Family
Wizard app[lication].
"5. Beginning January 17, 2026, the [father] shall
have supervised visitation every other Saturday and Sunday
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for three (3) hours each day supervised by the Bridge Center.
In the event the supervisor is unavailable, the [father] shall
coordinate makeup dates through the Our Family Wizard
parenting app[lication]. The [father] shall be responsible for
payment of visitation expenses.
"6. The [father] shall have phone calls with the ...
children between the hours of 6:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. on Tuesday
and Thursdays.
"7. The [f]ather shall not remove the ... children from
the State of Alabama without [c]ourt [o]rder.
"8. The [father] has earning capacity of $3,607 per
month. The [mother] reports gross wages of $6,522 per month.
[The mother] reports $190 per month for childcare and $578
for health insurance. The [father] is ORDERED to pay child
support in the amount of $995.00 per month beginning
January 2026, which payment shall be paid by the end of each
month in which it comes due.
"9. The [mother] is awarded retroactive child support
for October 2025, November 2025, and December 2025 in the
total amount of $2,985 which shall be paid on or before
February 1, 2026.
"10. Any outstanding [g]uardian ad litem fees shall be
paid in full within thirty (30) days of the entry date of this
[o]rder. The [c]ourt reserves jurisdiction for collection of
[g]uardian ad litem fees.
"11. [The mother's] Complaint for Contempt and
attorney fees is DENIED. All pending [m]otions are hereby
DENIED. This is a [f]inal [o]rder. All other requests for relief
are denied."
(Capitalization in original.)
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On February 4, 2026, the father filed, pursuant to Rule 59, Ala. R.
Civ. P., a postjudgment motion seeking to alter, amend, or vacate the
judgment entered in the contempt action or, alternatively, for a new trial.
At a hearing conducted on the father's postjudgment motion, the parties'
respective counsel agreed that no final judgment had been entered in the
PFA action, and counsel requested that the trial court enter a judgment
in that action. On March 6, 2026, the trial court entered a postjudgment
order in the contempt action that granted in part and denied in part the
father's requested relief. The father filed a notice of appeal from the
judgment entered in the contempt action on March 20, 2026. (C. 342).
Also, on March 6, 2026, the trial court entered in the PFA action a
final PFA order enjoining the father from threatening to commit or
committing acts of abuse as defined in the Act. Specifically, the final PFA
order restrained the father from contacting the mother; from harassing,
stalking, threatening, or engaging in conduct that would place the
mother in reasonable fear of bodily injury; from having physical or violent
contact with the mother or her property, residence, and place of
employment; and from going within 300 feet of the mother's residence,
school, or place of employment. The trial court further ordered the father
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to immediately surrender all firearms to the Autauga County Sheriff's
Office. The final PFA order also provided that the terms of that order
would be effective until March 6, 2027. The father appealed from the
final PFA order on March 20, 2026. On May 26, 2026, this court
consolidated the appeals from the contempt action and the PFA action.
The Evidence
Langley, a marriage and family therapist, testified that she had
first met with the mother and the father in a joint session in February
2024. According to Langley, before that session, the mother had been
apprehensive about joining the father and Langley in the counseling
room. Langley said that, when she conducts coparenting sessions, she
typically has the parents sit very close to one another, but, she said,
because it had been evident that the mother was uncomfortable, she had
modified her normal procedure and had allowed the mother to sit on a
couch that was situated across the room from the father.
Langley testified that, despite her efforts, the coparenting session
had not been successful. She testified that she had had to de-escalate the
session several times and that she had eventually ended the session when
she had felt that it was no longer safe to continue the session because of
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the father's behavior. Langley said that, at some point during the
session, the father had begun to yell and had walked toward the mother.
Langley testified that the father's behavior had caused her to fear for her
safety and for the safety of the mother, and she described her response
when the father had walked toward the mother:
"At that point, I stood up and basically started yelling,
this is not going to happen. We are not going to do this. You
need to leave and you need to leave now. And that is not a
tone of voice that very many people hear from me and
certainly not in my office. I think that that really is probably
the only time that I have had to do that.
"I was very aware of my surroundings. I was very aware
of where my purse was with my phone in it, in order to call
the police because it was that bad."
Brandon Goldwire, an officer with the Prattville Police
Department, testified that, on the first day of the trial, the father had an
outstanding charge for stalking, with the mother as the victim.
According to Goldwire, that charge had been initiated after the father
allegedly violated a no-contact order, which prohibited him from
contacting the mother, by sending the mother e-mails and text messages.
Goldwire said that he had personally executed the arrest warrant and
had taken the father into custody at the Veterans Affairs hospital in
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Tuscaloosa. Thereafter, he said, he had transported the father to the
Autauga County jail.
Goldwire said that, when the father was incarcerated at the
Autauga County jail, his telephone calls were recorded and that, as part
of his investigation, Goldwire had reviewed those recordings. According
to Goldwire, in a recorded telephone call with his mother, the father had
stated that he did not see what the big deal was because he had only been
sending e-mails to the mother. Goldwire said that he had received
approximately 14 police reports from the mother regarding the father's
behavior toward her. Goldwire had also received at least one report from
the father alleging that the mother's boyfriend had harassed him.
Because that incident was not a domestic-violence event, and because
Goldwire's job was to accept and process complaints regarding domestic-
violence allegations, Goldwire said that he had referred the father to the
magistrate to address that issue.
Calloway testified that she had supervised one visit between the
father and the children at the Autauga County courthouse. That visit
had lasted one hour and had occurred without incident. According to
Calloway, the children had appeared to be comfortable and had had a
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positive interaction with the father, and, she said, the father also had
interacted with the children in an appropriate manner. Calloway said
that, following that supervised visit, she had recommended that more
visits occur away from the courthouse. In the event that the trial court
ordered the father's visitation to be supervised, Calloway said that she
would have no concerns providing supervision services in the future.
The mother testified that, pursuant to the divorce judgment, she
and the father had exercised "50/50 custody" of the children on an
alternating weekly basis. Despite the trial court's having ordered
alternating weekly custodial periods, the mother said that she and the
father had agreed that his custodial time would follow his work schedule
so that, when the father was working, the children would be in the
mother's custody and, when he was off, the children would be in his
custody.
Regarding her contempt petition, the mother said that, following
their divorce, the father had begun harassing her. To minimize the
father's behavior, the mother said that she and the father had been
required to communicate through a coparenting application and that
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they had attended coparenting counseling with Langley. According to
the mother, those efforts had been unsuccessful.
In 2023, the mother began receiving harassing e-mails, which, she
said, were intended to blackmail her into recording a video of her having
sex with the father and forwarding that video to the sender of the e-mail.
According to the mother, the e-mails had threatened that, if she did not
comply with the directives, the sender would contact the mother's
employer and report the mother to the Department of Human Resources.
The e-mails originated from Proton, which, the mother said, is an e-mail
service that requires a password in order to view the content of e-mails
originating from a Proton e-mail address. According to the mother, e-
mails that originate from Proton expire and are no longer accessible after
a period that is set by the sender. According to the mother, the Proton e-
mails that she received had originated from a "John Tyler" as well as
from a second pseudonym;2 however, the mother opined that the father
was the individual responsible for sending the Proton e-mails that she
had received.
2The second Proton e-mail address is not listed because this appeal
has been designated confidential and because that e-mail address
includes the father's surname.
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In subsequent text messages between the mother and the father,
which were admitted into evidence over a hearsay objection interjected
by the father, the father admitted to being the source of the e-mails from
"John Tyler." According to the mother, after the text exchange in which
the father admitted to being "John Tyler," the father had telephoned her
and recanted his earlier admission. The mother, however, maintained
her assertion that the father was the source of the e-mails from "John
Tyler," despite the father's subsequent denial. According to the mother,
the fact that the e-mails from "John Tyler" had ceased when the father
had been arrested and jailed and had resumed when he was released
from incarceration had further convinced her that the father had used
"John Tyler" as a pseudonym to harass and to attempt to blackmail her.
According to the mother, she had continued to receive e-mails from
"John Tyler" that included information that she believed was intended to
scare or threaten her, such as her vehicle-identification number, her
license-plate number, and the date her automobile was registered and to
whom it was registered. The mother reported those e-mails to the
Alabama Law Enforcement Agency, which, according to the mother, had
opened an investigation to determine if someone had misused their
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authority to search her vehicle-identification number. The trial court
admitted into evidence, over the father's objection, the mother's
composite exhibit that contained the e-mails that she had received from
"John Tyler" ("the mother's exhibit 13"); the father's objection was based
on his assertion that the e-mails were unauthenticated and, therefore,
inadmissible hearsay.
The mother confirmed earlier testimony indicating that she had
filed reports with the Prattville Police Department regarding the father's
actions. When the mother first began filing those reports, she said, she
had not wanted to pursue warrants for the father's arrest. Instead, the
mother said, she had filed those reports to document the occurrences of
harassment and the escalation of the father's behavior toward her,
including his threatening to abscond with the children to Louisiana.
After the father was arrested for his behavior toward the mother, the
mother said that the father had sent her a text message while he was
incarcerated in which he had apologized for having sent her the
harassing e-mails.
Based on her history with the father, the mother testified that it
was impossible for her to have a coparenting relationship with him.
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Despite her stated fears of the father's knowing where she lived and
having her contact information, the mother conceded that she and the
father needed to communicate for the benefit of the children. She
requested that the trial court limit all communications between the
parties to a coparenting application, which, she said, would alleviate the
need for the father to have her personal contact information. The mother
also requested that she not be required to inform the father of the location
of her residence.
Regarding the father's visitation with the children, the mother said
that he had spoken with the children on the telephone on Tuesday,
Thursday, and Saturday of each week and had exercised a supervised
visit a few weeks before the trial began. The mother did not object to the
father's maintaining his telephone contact with the children, but she did
express concern about the frequency of the telephone calls considering
the ages of the children. The mother requested that the father's
visitation with the children remain supervised and that those supervised
visits be scheduled in advance. Lastly, the mother requested that she be
awarded sole legal and sole physical custody of the children.
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The paternal grandmother testified that she resides in Thibodaux,
Louisiana, which, she said, is approximately 375 miles from Prattville.
Until the mother and the father moved to Alabama in January 2022,
they, too, had resided in Thibodaux. The paternal grandmother said that
she had last seen the children in February 2024, after which, she said,
the mother had "blocked" the paternal grandmother's ability to
communicate with her.
According to the paternal grandmother, the mother had stated to
her that, because the mother did not like the way that the father had
spoken to her, the mother intended to use the father's post-traumatic
stress disorder ("PTSD") and allegations of domestic violence against him
to gain custody of the children. The paternal grandmother, who herself
was a 20-year veteran law-enforcement officer, denied that she had ever
witnessed the father commit acts of domestic violence directed at the
mother or at the children. The paternal grandmother said, however, that
she had witnessed the mother commit domestic violence against the
father when they lived in Thibodaux.
On cross-examination, the paternal grandmother initially admitted
that she had contacted the Elmore County Sheriff's office on "six or
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sevenish" occasions to have law-enforcement officers conduct a welfare
check at the mother's residence. Because of the frequency of her requests,
she said, she had made a compromise with a night supervisor at the
sheriff's office to limit her welfare-check requests to once per month.
The Elmore County Sheriff's office records, which were admitted as
a trial exhibit, contradicted the paternal grandmother's testimony.
Those records indicated that the paternal grandmother had requested 15
welfare checks at the mother's residence and that the paternal
grandmother had been advised that the sheriff's office would no longer
conduct welfare checks at the mother's residence because that process
had been used to harass the mother. The records further indicated that
the paternal grandmother had been instructed to contact the Department
of Human Resources with any future requests to have a welfare check
performed at the mother's residence.
The father admitted that he and the mother had informally
modified their custodial periods from the alternating weekly schedule
included in the divorce judgment to a "two, two, two, two, three" schedule
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that accommodated his work schedule.3 The father testified that the
agreed-upon modified schedule had worked well for him and for the
children. He said, however, that he understood that the agreed-upon
modified schedule had been a burden on the mother, which, he said, had
caused her to insist that the parties resume the alternating weekly
custodial periods established in the divorce judgment.
The father testified that he had been employed with the Millbrook
Police Department, but, he said, he no longer maintained that
employment. The father had not located new employment at the time of
the trial, but he had a commercial driver's license ("CDL") that could
provide him with local employment opportunities. Because of his
unemployment, the father suggested that he could provide childcare for
the children.
The father said that he was residing with his stepfather in a house
in Prattville. The father had his own bedroom in that house, but, he said,
3In the agreed-upon modified schedule, the father would have the
children for two days followed by the mother's having the children for two
days. The parties would alternate that schedule such that both exercised
two custodial periods that were two days in length. The agreed-upon
schedule would conclude with each parent exercising a three-day period.
Thereafter, the parties would start the schedule over.
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the children would share bunk beds in a single bedroom. He
acknowledged that his stepfather's house was a short-term living
solution that he anticipated would change upon his obtaining
employment.
The father admitted having stated to the mother that, if she
continued playing games, he would take the children to Louisiana. The
father denied that that statement had been a threat to abscond with the
children. Instead, the father said, he had meant to convey that he was
going to take the children to an area where he was more comfortable with
the legal system. The father acknowledged that his statement to the
mother had been made out of stupidity and anger. He denied that he had
intended to convey that he would keep the children from the mother.
Because of time constraints, the father was unable to complete his
testimony on the first day of the trial. The trial court adjourned the trial
and indicated that testimony would resume on November 4, 2025. The
trial court also indicated that a pendente lite order would be entered that