Cheng v. Stoler
CourtHawaii Intermediate Court of Appeals
Date FiledOctober 13, 2026
DocketCAAP-25-0000439
StatusPublished
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Electronically Filed
Intermediate Court of Appeals
CAAP-XX-XXXXXXX
13-OCT-2026
07:55 AM
Dkt. 75 SO
NO. CAAP-XX-XXXXXXX
IN THE INTERMEDIATE COURT OF APPEALS
OF THE STATE OF HAWAI#I
CELIA CHENG, Petitioner-Appellee, v.
JUSTIN STOLER, Respondent-Appellant.
APPEAL FROM THE FAMILY COURT OF THE FIRST CIRCUIT
(CASE NO. 1FDA-XX-XXXXXXX)
SUMMARY DISPOSITION ORDER
(By: Hiraoka, Presiding Judge, and Wadsworth and Guidry, JJ.)
Respondent-Appellant Justin Stoler (Stoler) appeals
from the May 12, 2025 Order For Protection (OFP) entered by the
Family Court of the First Circuit in favor of Petitioner-Appellee
Petitioner-Appellee Celia Cheng (Cheng).1/ Following an
evidentiary hearing, the Family Court found that the OFP was
necessary to prevent domestic abuse or a recurrence of abuse, and
enjoined Stoler from, among other things, threatening, physically
abusing, or psychologically abusing Cheng for a period of five
years. Stoler also challenges certain aspects of the Family
Court's Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law (FOFs/COLs),
entered on September 2, 2025.
On appeal, Stoler contends that the Family Court erred
in concluding that: (1) Stoler engaged in an intentional or
knowing course of conduct directed at Cheng that seriously
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The Honorable Michelle K. Moorhead presided.
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alarmed and disturbed her (COL 28); (2) Stoler's course of
conduct would cause a reasonable person to suffer extreme
emotional distress (COL 29); (3) Cheng was subjected to extreme
psychological abuse and Stoler committed domestic abuse (COLs 30-
31); (4) Cheng, in her Petition for an Order of Protection
(Petition), listed three specific allegations of abuse with dates
and unspecified allegations without dates (FOFs 4-5); (5) 23
emails sent by Stoler to Cheng constituted "stalking and abnormal
behavior, and domestic abuse" (FOFs 35-36); and (6) Cheng met her
burden of proof that Stoler subjected her to extreme emotional
abuse, and established he committed domestic abuse (COLs 30-31).
After reviewing the record on appeal and the relevant
legal authorities, and giving due consideration to the issues
raised and the arguments advanced by the parties, we resolve
Stoler's contentions as follows, and affirm.
I. Background
On March 14, 2025, Cheng filed the Petition pursuant to
Hawaii Revised Statutes (HRS) chapter 586. The Petition stated
that Cheng and Stoler had been in a dating relationship from
April to September 2024, at which time Cheng ended the
relationship. Cheng then ceased all contact with Stoler and
blocked him on her phone and on social media. The Petition
described, among other things, the following alleged incidents of
abuse by Stoler: (1) on March 10, 2025, Stoler peered through
the windows of Cheng's workplace unannounced, causing her
"immediate, extreme anxiety and distress"; (2) on March 12, 2025,
Stoler a) went to lunch where he knows Cheng eats lunch every
Wednesday and asked restaurant staff about her, b) went to
Cheng's work studio, c) went to Cheng's friend's office and asked
about Cheng, and d) went to the florist next to Cheng's studio;
and (3) on March 13, 2025, Stoler called Cheng's work associate
twice and emailed her asking about Cheng and their work. The
Petition also alleged that Stoler "has used an alternate phone
number attempting to reach me through my business contact[, and]
has contacted my family with false information, attempting to
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damage my reputation." The Family Court issued the Temporary
Restraining Order (TRO) on March 14, 2025.
The Family Court held hearings on the Petition on
April 23 and May 12, 2025. Both Cheng and Stoler testified.
Following the presentation of evidence on May 12, 2025, the
Family Court granted the Petition and entered the OFP.
On September 2, 2025, the Family Court entered the
FOFs/COLs. The following summary of the court's findings are
drawn from the unchallenged FOFs,2/ unless otherwise noted:
Cheng and Stoler first met in 2000 as coworkers at
Deutsche Bank in New York City. They fell out of touch and had
no contact between 2006 and 2024, except in 2020, when Stoler
asked Cheng to facilitate Stoler's contact with Cheng's sister in
order to invite her to participate in a wine course taught by
Stoler.
Stoler attended a conference in April 2024 in Honolulu,
and reached out to Cheng prior to see if she wanted to reconnect.
Cheng and Stoler met four to five times while Stoler was in
Honolulu. Cheng testified that after that, she and Stoler had a
four-month-long dating relationship that she ended in September
2024 "due to [Stoler] showing abusive behavior." The week before
they broke up, "[Cheng] asked for space from [Stoler] and [he]
did not respect her wishes." On August 25, 2024, within 24 hours
of being asked for space, Stoler emailed Cheng, saying that
waiting felt "intolerable."
On August 27, 2024, Stoler emailed Cheng 23 times
between 9:18 a.m. and 9:24 a.m. EST. Stoler testified that these
emails were inspired by "Love Lines," an art installation that he
and Cheng had viewed at the Guggenheim museum in August 2024.
Each email included a subject line without text in the email
body.3/
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Unchallenged findings of fact are binding on appeal. In re Doe,
99 Hawai#i 522, 538, 57 P.3d 447, 463 (2002) (quoting Poe v. Haw. Labor Rels.
Bd., 97 Hawai#i 528, 536, 40 P.3d 930, 938 (2002)).
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FOFs 35 and 36 summarize Stoler's testimony about the emails and
set out their subject lines. Stoler does not dispute that he sent the emails
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Stoler acknowledged later on August 27 via email that
he had violated Cheng's request for space. In response, Cheng
instructed Stoler not to contact her by phone or text and that
she would like a week to herself before further contact.
Stoler emailed Cheng the next day with a message that
stated in part with bold text that "[r]esolving relationship
conflict is a shared responsibility, but you are putting your
needs way above mine." Stoler emailed Cheng again on August 31
wishing her a successful block party and that he was thinking of
her.
Cheng ended her relationship with Stoler on
September 2, 2024. After that, Cheng blocked Stoler on her cell
phone; she did not respond to any of Stoler's communications from
September 2024 on.
Stoler emailed Cheng on September 10, 2024. He sent
Cheng three "heartfelt essays" on September 15. Following their
breakup, Stoler texted, emailed, and called Cheng's social circle
and asked for information about Cheng, including Cheng's business
associate on September 9 and Cheng's sister on September 16.
Also in September 2024, Stoler scheduled an on-line
appointment with Cheng's hypnotist under a false name. During
the appointment, Stoler revealed his true identity and began
asking for information about Cheng.
On December 31, 2024, Stoler contacted Cheng on her
Google Voice phone number with a message that included the
statement "you are loved" and a photo of a hibiscus flower.
Stoler attended a business trip in Honolulu between March 10
and 17, 2025. One week before the trip, on March 3, Stoler
mailed Cheng a card via USPS priority mail. Cheng did not open
the card and returned it to sender. Stoler testified that he
discussed the strategy of sending the card with conflict
resolution experts "to make sure the card wasn't going to raise
any alarms and it wasn't going to create any problems."
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(...continued)
– just the Family Court's purported conclusion that the emails constituted
"stalking and abnormal behavior, and domestic abuse."
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On March 10, 2025, the evening he arrived in Honolulu,
Stoler went to Cheng's workplace and peered through the window
without Cheng's invitation. Stoler also slipped a card under
Cheng's workplace door, stating in part that he was in town that
week for work and "wanted to see if [he] could treat [her] to
lunch." Stoler wrote Cheng's Chinese name on the card that he
slipped under the door; this was the name that Stoler called
Cheng when they were dating. Stoler testified that he took a
picture of this card so that there would be a record "of him
doing a nice thing." Cheng did not respond to the card.
On the same March 10 evening, Cheng received a Ring
Camera notification on her cell phone and, when she checked it,
saw an image of Stoler looking into her workplace through the
window. Cheng testified that "starting from March 10, 2025 at
7:42 p.m. when he showed up on my video camera, my entire life
changed[,]" and she was "in hiding and . . . terrified." Cheng
notified her friends and people around her workplace that she
wouldn't be going into work because she was scared of Stoler.
Stoler did not email or call Cheng prior to his arrival in
Hawai#i.
On Wednesday, March 12, Stoler went to lunch for 75 to
90 minutes at a restaurant where Cheng goes every Wednesday, and
he asked staff if they had heard from Cheng. After lunch, Stoler
went to a florist next door to Cheng's workplace, and looked to
see whether the lights were off in Cheng's workplace and whether
Cheng was there.
Also on March 12, Stoler went to see Cheng's friend at
his business and asked if he had seen Cheng. The Family Court
did not find credible Stoler's testimony that he was on a run and
had spontaneously decided to stop in and see if the friend was in
the office.
Stoler emailed Cheng's business associate during his
March 2025 trip to Hawai#i. In his email, Stoler said that he
had run into several people who knew Cheng while in Hawai#i, but
admitted on cross examination that he had initiated these
meetings and they were not spontaneous. The business associate
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responded to Stoler on March 14, 2025, that Cheng was not
interested in interacting with Stoler in any way. Stoler did not
have any direct contact with Cheng during his trip from March 10
to 17, 2025.
Stoler refused to acknowledge that his actions to get
in contact with Cheng had caused her fear. Cheng testified that
she is terrified of Stoler and feels that he is stalking her.
Stoler testified that based on his knowledge of Cheng's prior
romantic history, Cheng had reached out post-breakup to reconcile
prior relationships, and Stoler wanted Cheng to know that the
"door was open."
The Family Court found the testimony and evidence
credible that Stoler committed domestic abuse and that Cheng
filed the Petition to protect herself, and that Cheng proved the
material allegations of the petition by a preponderance of the
evidence.
II. Discussion
The Family Court entered the OFP pursuant to HRS
§ 586-5.5. That statute provides in relevant part:
Protective order; additional orders. (a) If, after
hearing all relevant evidence, the court finds that the
respondent has failed to show cause why the [temporary
restraining] order should not be continued and that a
protective order is necessary to prevent domestic abuse or a
recurrence of abuse, the court may order that a protective
order be issued for a further fixed reasonable period as the
court deems appropriate . . . .
HRS § 586-5.5(a) (Supp. 2021) (emphasis added). At a protective
order hearing under HRS § 586-5.5(a), "the burden remains on the
petitioner to prove the petitioner's underlying allegations by a
preponderance of the evidence." Kie v. McMahel, 91 Hawai#i 438,
442, 984 P.2d 1264, 1268 (App. 1999) (citing Coyle v. Compton, 85
Hawai#i 197, 205, 940 P.2d 404, 412 (App. 1997)).
HRS § 586-1 (Supp. 2020) defines "[d]omestic abuse" in
part as "[p]hysical harm, bodily injury, assault, or the threat
of imminent physical harm, bodily injury, or assault, extreme
psychological abuse, coercive control, or malicious property
damage between family or household members[.]" (Emphasis added.)
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In turn, HRS § 586-1 (2018) defines "[e]xtreme psychological
abuse" as "an intentional or knowing course of conduct directed
at an individual that seriously alarms or disturbs consistently
or continually bothers the individual, and that serves no
legitimate purpose; provided that such course of conduct would
cause a reasonable person to suffer extreme emotional distress."
Here, based on the FOFs, the Family Court concluded in
relevant part:
28. [Cheng] met her burden to establish that [Stoler]
engaged in an intentional or knowing course of conduct
directed at [Cheng] that seriously alarmed or disturbed
[Cheng], serving no legitimate purpose.
29. The multiple actions of [Stoler] in their
totality, before and after his breakup with [Cheng],
constituted a course of conduct that would cause a
reasonable person to suffer extreme emotional distress.
30. [Cheng] met her burden to establish that [Stoler]
subjected her to extreme psychological abuse as defined in
HRS § 586-1.
31. [Cheng] met her burden to establish that [Stoler]
committed domestic abuse.
. . . .
33. A Protective Order is necessary to prevent
domestic abuse or the reoccurrence of abuse.
Stoler contends that the Family Court erred in reaching
COLs 28-31. Specifically, he challenges COL 28 in his first
point of error, COL 29 in his second point of error, and COLs 30-
31 in his third and sixth points of error. See supra.
We review the Family Court's exercise of discretion in
this context as follows:
[T]he family court possesses wide discretion in making its
decisions and those decision[s] will not be set aside unless
there is a manifest abuse of discretion. Thus, we will not
disturb the family court's decisions on appeal unless the
family court disregarded rules or principles of law or
practice to the substantial detriment of a party litigant
and its decision clearly exceeded the bounds of reason.
Fisher v. Fisher, 111 Hawai#i 41, 46, 137 P.3d 355, 360 (2006)
(quoting In re Doe, 95 Hawai#i 183, 189-90, 20 P.3d 616, 622-23
(2001)).
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We review the Family Court's findings of fact for clear
error and vacate only when "the record lacks substantial evidence
to support the finding or, . . . despite substantial evidence in
support of the finding, [we are] left with a definite and firm
conviction that a mistake has been made." Id. "'Substantial
evidence' is credible evidence which is of sufficient quality and
probative value to enable a person of reasonable caution to
support a conclusion." Id. We likewise review conclusions of
law that present mixed questions of fact and law for clear error.
See Estate of Klink ex rel. Klink v. State, 113 Hawai#i 332, 351,
152 P.3d 504, 523 (2007) (quoting AIG Hawaii Ins. Co. v. Estate
of Caraang, 74 Haw. 620, 629, 851 P.2d 321, 326 (1993)).
Here, the unchallenged FOFs, summarized above, are
binding on this court and support the Family Court's mixed
conclusions of fact and law in COLs 28 through 31. See In re
Doe, 99 Hawai#i at 538, 57 P.3d at 463. These COLs are supported
by substantial evidence in the record, and we are not left with a
definite and firm conviction that a mistake has been made. See
In re Doe, 95 Hawai#i at 190, 20 P.3d at 623.
Stoler argues that he "never intended nor knowingly
engaged in a course of conduct to seriously alarm, or disturb"
Cheng; his "mimicking of 'Love Lines' . . . [was] motivated out
of friendship and/or love between the parties"; and "[a]ttempting
to repair a basic friendship or even a romantic relationship
necessarily infers an intent that could not be one to harass,
annoy, or alarm.
Because "intent can rarely be proved by direct
evidence, proof of circumstantial evidence and reasonable
inferences arising from circumstances surrounding the act is
sufficient to establish the requisite intent." See State v.
Calaycay, 145 Hawai#i 186, 200, 449 P.3d 1184, 1198 (2019)
(quoting State v. Kiese, 126 Hawai#i 494, 502, 273 P.3d 1180,
1188 (2012)). Here, Cheng's testimony and the documentary
evidence, as reflected in the unchallenged FOFs, constituted
substantial evidence from which the Family Court could reasonably
have concluded that Stoler engaged in an intentional or knowing
course of conduct directed at Cheng that seriously alarmed or
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disturbed her, serving no legitimate purpose. In disputing his
intent, Stoler argues the weight of the evidence, ignoring the
Family Court's express findings that Cheng's testimony was
"credible in full" and, in several relevant instances, Stoler's
testimony was not credible. We will not pass on the credibility
of a witness or the weight of the evidence. See Fisher, 111
Hawai#i at 46, 137 P.3d at 360 (quoting In re Doe, 95 Hawai#i at
190, 20 P.3d at 623). Substantial evidence supports COL 28.
Stoler argues that the Family Court erred in concluding
that the totality of his actions constituted a course of conduct
that would cause a reasonable person to suffer extreme emotional
distress. In particular, he contends that his 23 emails to Cheng
on August 27, 2024, were "[l]egitimate communicated efforts on
the part of a person in love [that] can hardly be conduct that
would cause a reasonable person to suffer extreme emotional
distress.
We disagree. The unchallenged FOFs support the Family
Court's conclusion that the totality of Stoler's actions
constituted a course of conduct that would cause a reasonable
person to suffer extreme emotional distress, as reflected in COL
29. In this regard, Stoler's fifth point of error (see supra)
also lacks merit. The Family Court did not conclude that the 23
emails in isolation were "stalking and abnormal behavior, and
domestic abuse." Rather, it was Stoler who testified that the
emails were not such behavior. Substantial evidence supports COL
29.
Finally, Stoler contends in his fourth point of error
that the Family Court erred in finding that the Petition "listed
3 specific allegations of abuse, and dates for the specific acts,
and unspecified acts." He makes no argument supporting this
contention or its significance. It is deemed waived.4/ Hawai#i
Rules of Appellate Procedure (HRAP) Rule 28(b)(7).
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Stoler also argues that Cheng "used Chat GPT (Artificial
Intelligence) to make statements in her [P]etition[,]" and, therefore, "[t]he
statement is not in compliance with HRS Section 586-3(c). He does not state
"where in the record the alleged error was objected to or the manner in which
[it] was brought to the attention of the court . . . ." HRAP Rule 28(b)(4);
see Cnty. of Hawai#i v. C & J Coupe Family Ltd. P'ship, 119 Hawai #i 352, 373,
198 P.3d 615, 636 (2008). The argument is deemed waived.
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III. Conclusion
For the reasons discussed above, the May 12, 2025 Order
For Protection entered by the Family Court of the First Circuit
is affirmed.
DATED: Honolulu, Hawai#i, October 13, 2026.
On the briefs: /s/ Keith K. Hiraoka
Presiding Judge
Scot Stuart Brower
for Respondent-Appellant.
/s/ Clyde J. Wadsworth
Ryan Ha Associate Judge
for Plaintiff-Appellee.
/s/ Kimberly T. Guidry
Associate Judge
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