J.D. v. A.M.W.
CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
Date FiledApril 6, 2023
DocketA-1269-21
StatusPublished
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APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION
SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-1269-21
J.D.,
Plaintiff-Appellant,
APPROVED FOR PUBLICATION
April 6, 2023
v.
APPELLATE DIVISION
A.M.W.,
Defendant-Respondent.
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Submitted March 27, 2023 โ Decided April 6, 2023
Before Judges Whipple, Smith, and Marczyk.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County,
Docket No. FV-04-0695-22.
David S. Rochman, attorney for appellant.
Lance Brown and Associates, LLC, attorneys for
respondent (Lance D. Brown and Alyssa N. Smisek,
on the brief).
The opinion of the court was delivered by
SMITH, J.A.D.
Plaintiff appeals the trial court's denial of her application for a Final
Restraining Order (FRO) under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (the
Act), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. Plaintiff argues the trial court erred in finding
she did not meet her burden under the second prong of Silver v. Silver, 387
N.J. Super. 112 (App. Div. 2006). We agree and reverse and remand for entry
of an FRO.
I.
Plaintiff J.D. and defendant A.M.W. had a non-marital romantic
relationship and have a child in common (M.W., born in 2011). The parties
lived together with their son for a year, then shared custody of him until
December 8, 2015, when he came home from a visit with defendant with a
black eye and cut above his eye. Following a hearing, the Family Part granted
plaintiff sole custody of M.W. in June 2018. During this period the parties
agreed upon certain civil restraints which, among other things, limited contact
between plaintiff and defendant exclusively to child related matters.
Plaintiff's application stems from an August 29, 2021 incident. Plaintiff
and defendant were at a soccer field attending their son's game. It was
defendant's day to have supervised parenting time with M.W., then ten ye ars
old. At some point during the day, plaintiff realized defendant had gone
through her stroller to find and remove their son's sneakers. She asked for the
sneakers back and instructed defendant not to touch her belongings.
Defendant refused and began to argue with her. He chest-bumped her, causing
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her to stumble backwards. M.W. witnessed the incident while standing behind
his mother, holding on to her shirt. Defendant attempted to grab M.W., but
plaintiff blocked him, telling defendant to "back off" and to stop acting like
"an animal." Plaintiff beckoned defendant's father, who supervised defendant's
parenting time, to help calm the situation. At the FRO hearing, plaintiff
testified that she was fearful of defendant during this incident.
Plaintiff testified to a history of domestic violence in her relationship
with defendant, which began in 2009. During the relationship, they often
broke up because he would "get in [her] face, shove [her] or hit [her,]" but the
break ups were brief. Plaintiff testified to several specific acts of domestic
violence which occurred during the relationship. Plaintiff testified that the
violence began with him aggressively walking into her and then escalated over
time. Plaintiff also testified to a 2010 event which occurred while she was
pregnant with M.W.:
I received a text message group chat and he got really
upset. He was drunk. He had driven us home[.] I
hadn't been drinking because we just found out I was
pregnant. He took my phone, he broke it in half, so I
jumped out of his car. I was attempting to go to my
apartment, into the front of the building. I tried
leaving. He chased after me and followed.
....
He shoved me into the wall so the back of my body
and head hit it, and then I fell down, because there
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was also ice underneath me because it was, had been
snowing[,] I guess.
And I got back up and at that point I had a cut on the
side, I donโt know, the back or the side, somewhere on
my head because I felt the blood. And I pleaded with
him to just please let me go in my apartment building.
I reminded him that I was pregnant. He shoved me
down again. He was yelling at me still. At this point
other neighbors started looking out the window[.]
....
I finally got into my house and tried to shut the door.
He shoved it open. He came inside, and he's still
yelling at me. He tossed, I guess, my coffee table and
my couch, everything in the kitchen, he was tossing
all my furniture around. He was throwing dishes on
the floor.
I ran into my bedroom[,] . . . locked the door and I hid
in there. This was after he had been walking into me
and shoving me, that I ran into my room, and I told
him I was calling the police. And he said, "Go ahead
and call the police, you know, I know all the police,
my dad's a cop," et cetera.
Plaintiff next testified to another incident which occurred when M.W.
was three weeks old:
Our son . . . was [three] weeks old. . . . . he was
yelling at me . . . but the baby started crying. I picked
the baby up. I darted off to the bedroom, he followed
me. He was still yelling, and I tried telling him to
please calm down, the baby is scared. And he kept
saying, "Do you hear me, tell me that you hear me, tell
me that I'm right."
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And I sat on the bed with the baby in my arms,
and he was shoving my head . . . .
I kept asking him to just please get out of the
room and leave me alone and go away and just cool
off. I was trying to calm the baby.
....
I was crying, and I was pleading with him to
please leave me alone and . . . . [h]e kept shoving my
head.
Plaintiff testified that she feared defendant throughout this incident.
On direct, plaintiff testified about her reason for seeking a restraining
order against defendant:
[PLAINTIFF:] Because he seems bolder. I don't
know, he's doing things in public which isn't that
common with him. I just feel like he's going to do
something worse.
[COUNSEL:] Do you fear the defendant?
[PLAINTIFF:] Absolutely.
[COUNSEL:] Did you fear the defendant on [August
29, 2021]?
[PLAINTIFF:] Yes.
[COUNSEL:] How about as of today, do you fear the
defendant?
[PLAINTIFF:] Yes.
....
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[COUNSEL:] Have you formulated an opinion as to
future occurrences, if you are not granted a restraining
order?
[PLAINTIFF:] I'm afraid he's . . . not following the
civil restraints. He's getting physical again. I'm just
afraid he's going to hurt me again. I don't know what
else to do. So I'm here. I don't want to be here, but
I'm here.
During a lunch break on the second day of trial, a new incident took
place between the parties in the courthouse. Plaintiff's counsel went on the
record:
Judge, I would ask that the matter be continued in
light of what transpired over lunch. We've asked that
the [c]ounty [p]olice [d]epartment become involved.
My client believes that the defendant had purposeful
contact with her during lunch, and I'd ask that that
matter be allowed to be adjudicated.
My client left lunch hysterical in tears. I
brought it to the Sheriff's Department's attention; they
asked me to contact [the police]. I contacted [the
police] and [the police] indicated that they were on
their way over.
The defendant came within two feet of my
client during lunch. And I'd ask that the Camden
County Prosecutor's Office be allowed to come over in
conjunction with the [police].
My client is hysterical. My client was crying on
the way over. My client is completely fearful . . . of
the defendant[,] and I would ask that . . . Your Honor
defer and delay the proceeding until such time as [law
enforcement] can deal with what we consider to be a
violation. Thank you.
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Despite counsel's request for an adjournment, the trial court resumed the
hearing and made findings. It concluded plaintiff's testimony was credible.
Defendant did not testify.
The court next found plaintiff presented sufficient evidence to prove the
predicate act of harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4, concluding the first prong of
Silver had been met.
Analyzing prong two of Silver, the court concluded plaintiff did not need
an FRO, stating:
I do not find . . . that you are in immediate danger
from this particular defendant, because you . . . really
[have] safeguards in place from a difficult situation
through the litigation with [another Family Part in a
different county] and through the prior order that you
signed in regards to civil restraints.
....
[W]hat I'm going to do in the dismissal order is
place the following language . . . . [M]y goal is to
make sure you're safe, ma'am. But in regards to the
proof, I felt you proved the predicate act, but I don't
think there's immediate danger because I think that we
have [defendant's father] there; he seems to be
safeguarding it. I also think that your husband there
appeared to me to be very levelheaded. And while I
did not hear from [defendant], it's my impression that
I think he now gets it, and I also think that he realizes
from there.
So what I'm going to indicate [is] this, that the
parties will maintain at least [twenty] yards distance
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between each other at [their son's] sporting events.
The supervising grandfather . . . will handle all
necessary communication between the plaintiff and
defendant, and I think that will prevent any further
dustups like that.
The trial court did not consider the lunch break incident that occurred
during the day of the FRO hearing, stating:
I make no decision on . . . the conduct at lunch . . . .
[T]hat's not before me. If that's filed and if it[] . . .
becomes [an FRO] matter because of TR[O],
whatever, that's fine. I just heard that from an officer
and it was my decision to just keep going with the trial
and make a decision today.
This appeal followed.
II.
"In [appellate] review of a trial court's order entered following trial in a
domestic violence matter, we grant substantial deference to the trial court's
findings of fact and the legal conclusions based upon those findings." N.T.B
v. D.D.B., 442 N.J. Super. 205, 215 (App. Div. 2015) (quoting D.N. v. K.M.,
429 N.J. Super. 592, 596 (App. Div. 2013)). "We defer to the credibility
determinations made by the trial court because the trial judge 'hears the case,
sees and observes the witnesses, and hears them testify,' affording it 'a better
perspective than a reviewing court in evaluating the veracity of a witness. '"
Gnall v. Gnall, 222 N.J. 414, 428 (2015) (quoting Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J.
394, 412 (1998)). We also recognize because of "the family courts' special
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jurisdiction and expertise in family matters, appellate courts should accord
deference to family court factfinding." Cesare, 154 N.J. at 413. However, we
do not defer to the judge's legal conclusions if "based upon a misunderstanding
of . . . applicable legal principles." T.M.S. v. W.C.P., 450 N.J. Super. 499, 502
(App. Div. 2017) (quoting N.T.B., 442 N.J. Super. at 215).
In adjudicating a domestic violence case, the trial judge has a "two-fold"
task. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. at 125. The judge must first determine whether
the plaintiff has proven, by a preponderance of the evidence, that the defendant
committed one of the predicate acts referenced in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a). If a
predicate offense is proven, the judge must then assess "whether a restraining
order is necessary, upon an evaluation of the [factors] set forth in N.J.S.A.
2C:25-29[(a)](1) to -29[(a)](6), to protect the victim from an immediate danger
or to prevent further abuse." J.D. v. M.D.F., 207 N.J. 458, 475-76 (quoting
Silver, 387 N.J. Super. at 126-27). The factors which the court should
consider include, but are not limited to:
(1) The previous history of domestic violence between
the plaintiff and defendant, including threats,
harassment and physical abuse;
(2) The existence of immediate danger to person or
property;
(3) The financial circumstances of the plaintiff and
defendant;
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(4) The best interests of the victim and any child;
(5) In determining custody and parenting time the
protection of the victim's safety; and
(6) The existence of a verifiable order of protection
from another jurisdiction.
[N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a).]
III.
On appeal, plaintiff contends the trial court erred when it concluded
plaintiff failed to satisfy her burden under the second prong of Silver. Plaintiff
submits the trial court should not have relied on factors such as "safeguards"
provided by plaintiff's new husband and defendant's father, and any protections
plaintiff may have had under prior civil restraints. Plaintiff further argues the
court erred when it stated defendant "now gets it," making assumptions about
defendant's state of mind at the hearing despite having no basis to make such
an assessment. Finally, plaintiff posits the FRO hearing testimony about the
predicate act, combined with her fear of defendant and the prior history of
domestic violence, is enough to satisfy both prongs under Silver. We agree.
After a court finds a predicate act of domestic violence under Silver, the
second inquiry "is whether the court should enter a restraining order that
provides protection for the victim." Silver, 387 N.J. Super. at 126. The second
inquiry "is most often perfunctory and self-evident," and "the guiding standard
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is whether a restraining order is necessary, upon an evaluation of the factors
set forth in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29[(a)](1) to- 29[(a)](6), to protect the victim from
an immediate danger or to prevent further abuse." Id. at 127. "[I]n a domestic
violence context, a court should regard any past history of abuse by a
defendant as part of a plaintiff's individual circumstances and, in turn, factor
that history into its reasonable person determination." Cesare, 154 N.J. at 403.
The trial court found no need for protection under the second prong of
Silver because plaintiff has "safeguards in place from . . . the prior order that
[she] signed in regards to civil restraints" and that "there's [no] immediate
danger because . . . we have [defendant's father] there; he seems to be
safeguarding it [and plaintiff's] husband . . . appeared to me to be very
levelheaded."
The trial court's prong two findings raise several concerns. Its finding
that plaintiff's husband and defendant's father can protect her from defendant is
troubling, and ironically implies plaintiff has a need for protection. We note
plaintiff's husband and defendant's father were unable to prevent defendant's
acts of domestic violence on August 29. Given that reality, we fail to
understand what in the record caused the trial court to speculate that these
individuals would successfully protect plaintiff in the future. We also note the
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court's finding that the 2017 civil restraints still represented a "safeguard" for
plaintiff is unsupported by the record.
Finally, after it denied the FRO, the court sought to impose a minimum
distance requirement between the parties during their son's sporting events and
designate defendant's father as the primary point of contact for the parties'
future communication. The court took these steps, in its words, to "prevent
future dustups."
In assessing plaintiff's need for a restraining order under Silver's "second
inquiry," our courts conduct an evaluation of the statutory factors. 387 N.J.
Super. at 127. A trial court must evaluate N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(1) to- 29(a)(6)
in the context of whether the defendant is likely to continue his course of
abusive behavior, not whether external factors might thwart his attempts. A
court conducting an FRO hearing should not consider the capacity of third
parties to protect a domestic violence victim from their abuser when assessing
the need for protection under Silver's "second inquiry."
There is ample evidence in the record to show plaintiff requires an FRO
to prevent further abuse by defendant. The predicate act of harassment, the
history of domestic violence in the record, and defendant's violations of the
civil restraints lead us to conclude the trial court misapplied the law, and erred
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when it denied the FRO on this record. T.M.S. v. W.C.P., 450 N.J. Super. at
502.
Reversed and remanded for entry of an FRO. We do not retain
jurisdiction.
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